I am new to PUA scene and its my first post here. I am not very outspoken or engaging person, and have quiet a lot to work upon and learn in my quest to get better with women, but thankfully now I have the resource in form of these forums to help me along.

Now back to the origin topic. So I met this girl thru a common family friend. She recently got divorced but it seems like she is still mentally stuck with her previous husband and probably still talks to him. Due to family ties, I hesitated giving her any signs early on, and as a result fell into the deadly friend zone. We do hang out at times and she clearly seems more interested in other guys than me. I am still hesitating approaching too strongly due to our common family friend who obviously does not know anything about it. How do I make her feel attracted to me and f*ck her? Advice please.