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Thread: Flat Out Asking a Girl if She Wants to Hookup

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    Default Flat Out Asking a Girl if She Wants to Hookup

    I'm talking about girls that you know want to get laid. Whether if it's because they are I. The rebound or if they just haven't gotten any in a while. I know this is a PUA no no, but I have met naturals that do this and have pretty decent success with this. Thoughts?

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    Default Re: Flat Out Asking a Girl if She Wants to Bang

    high risk... high reward eyy
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: Flat Out Asking a Girl if She Wants to Hookup

    Indeed very high risk very high reward. Try it but only if you have nothing to loose if it can hurt your social value or is someone you want more from bad deal.

    Make sure if you do your intentions are clear that it is physical, don be that guy that plays like he wants more gets some and disappears.
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    Default Re: Flat Out Asking a Girl if She Wants to Hookup

    I wouldn't do it. Women(of any age)are pretty sensitive about this. They don't want to be labelled as sluts. Even if you ask them in private it's still probably not a good idea. If you know her really well or she is a friend with benefits it might be a different story but in those cases you are probably sleeping with her already anyway.

    I would say be flirty, throw in some sexual innuendo and see how she responds. You just need to be very subtle about it or at least more subtle than asking her if she wants to hook up. "Hmmmm, you know, I can picture you and me being really naughty with eachother. I won't say what kind of naughty but your a smart girl you can figure it out." Something like that. Then just escalate(physically and verbally)and try to either get her number or take her back to your place or hers.

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    Default Re: Flat Out Asking a Girl if She Wants to Hookup

    Haha. Yea I wouldn't try this at this point. I am still learning my game isn't good yet. I was just curious about it.

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    Default Re: Flat Out Asking a Girl if She Wants to Hookup

    this seems pointless and has to much opportunity to kill the set. instead simply ask her back to your place. let her have her plausible deniability I.e. it just happened.

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    Default Re: Flat Out Asking a Girl if She Wants to Hookup

    Quote Originally Posted by Suave Kino View Post
    this seems pointless and has to much opportunity to kill the set. instead simply ask her back to your place. let her have her plausible deniability I.e. it just happened.
    I'm sorry I wasn't very clear. I really meant girls that are in your social circle already. Yea I think asking girls you just met would be dumb haha.

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    Default Re: Flat Out Asking a Girl if She Wants to Hookup

    If they are Justifiers (see sex as being something natural and they are not shy about it) or if they are the TDR (Basicaly the one of the guys type pf girl who might appear tomboyish at times) then you should do that.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: Flat Out Asking a Girl if She Wants to Hookup

    It doesn't matter if they are in your social circle or not. If they are then that's even more reason to be discrete and not come right out and ask them to sleep with you. You either need to be really subtle about it or not at all. I would recommend using girls in your social circle as social proof and for the most part not sleeping with them unless special circumstances allow it(ie she is at your place and it's just the two of you or you are at her place and it's only just the two of you; in this case just escalate(physically and verbally)without coming right out and ask her to do it. You need plausible deniability as was already mentioned. It needs to be spontaneous and you have to make it so "it just happened."


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