Ran into this girl twice at a family gathering. It was a sister-in-laws graduation party so there was a young group there. The first time, I couldn't qet her to speak out much. Could not get any ioi's or anything. She seemed reserved, and uninterested. I felt at that point my game was off and I wouldn't be able to # close. HOWEVER, I had lots of fun at that party, and it seemed to carry on later. I danced with old ladies, the graduate girl, and her friends.
The second meeting was more interesting. Apparently, those guys recorded me dancing, and tried to get my attention (dhv?). All of a sudden they were trying to hook me up with the same girl from the last meeting. I couldn't even work up a conversation with her! Now shes attracted to me? I was skeptical.. her friends were drunk, but I played along. We were going to meet again.
I run into her the next day at a wedding. Danced, drank, and chatted up some folks there. Then I saw her, and decided to strike something up. Did some small talk: asked her if she danced, had fun, and enjoyed the wedding. I didn't find much IOI's other than being friendly and nice. Finally, I just said, "Ya know, you seem like a really cool girl, lets hang out sometime". I pulled out my phone and gave it to her. She was going to give me a fake, or give me the real thing. Turns out to be the real thing.
Texted her and told her I was at her familias after party. Hungout, chatted, and finally she asks me to go somewhere with her. Before we got there, she leans in to kiss me... I kiss right back. After that, I knew it was on. We end up making out at her house next door. Couldn't F-close... kids cockblocking us that night.
I'm shy, but I'm not that shy to where I can't make a move. Making out was one thing, but I didn't initiate it. Now I'm wondering if I have a chance with her later after pulling Beta sh**. Would going straight direct approach been more simple? Kino's bombshell method would've worked? It feels like I have gold, but it might be Fool's gold.