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    Default Where to take it with girl from orientation

    Alright so I met an HB7.5 at my freshman orientation for college. Things went well and we exchanged numbers. I initiated a text conversation with her and it started off a little boring but I was able to pick it up by asking her about her lifeguard job. Here's where I'm at. Help would be appreciated!

    Her: all these little kids get annoying at times
    me:I'm sure you're a pro at blowing that whistle by now
    Her:Oh yeah I'm a pro at blowing things hahaha
    Me: Whistles are called the gateway blow for a reason. Just leads to bigger things
    Her: Haha I started on bigger things though which is why I'm good at blowing my whistle\
    Me:Some lifeguards barely blow the whistle and its really soft. Personally I like it when they blow ther whistle like its going out of style. You a softie or a hard whistle blower?
    Her: Oh hell no I make that whistle my b*$%h!!!!!

    Anyone care to suggest the next move? She lives close to my lake house so if all goes well then y'all know what could happen when I get her to the lake. Anyways help is greatly appreciated. Thanks.

    Fitz

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    Default Re: Where to take it

    "Whoah. Someone is getting carried away. I mean, it's JUST a whistle "

    It'll help add to the innuendo and you are the one stopping it. Shows a bit of value.
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    Default Re: Where to take it

    Lmao um she's too easy/ you're good!! Well you need to bring it down to earth a little. Like Batman said "show some value" even if she is easy, make her work for it!! It'll make her even crazier for .
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    Default Re: Where to take it

    Don't forget you're in charge, NOT HER!! It kind of looks like she is gaming you at the beginning.
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    Default Re: Where to take it

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Don't forget you're in charge, NOT HER!! It kind of looks like she is gaming you at the beginning.
    Pshah! Let her game him a bit. The really fun interactions are the ones where you don't have to constantly control the flow of the conversation to make it entertaining. Nobody likes a control freak, and when you're able to keep your cool as a follower AND a leader, then you really have nothing to worry about.
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    Default Re: Where to take it

    Oh you got this man. A couple more exchanges then push for a meet up. She's making it oh so easy.

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    Default Re: Where to take it with girl from orientation

    thats way too many blowing and whistle. cool it down she may be testing you intention and see where your head at. I, personally, would change subject, move on something equally interresting or antertaining, maybe building rapport, and come back to the whistle and blowing thang once we in person face to face, and escalate at that moment, with maybe Kino. because then, you could yell if she was just gaming you or actually like to "blow stuff" lol
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    Default Re: Where to take it with girl from orientation

    Good job man. Just remember if you don't go for the meett the spark could die out. A cute girl once told me "these's so much you can through texting"
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