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    Default Texting a girl to come upstairs?

    There's an HB8 that works downstairs in the lobby of the building I live in. I hit on her after the gym one day, and I've never seen so many non-sexual IOIs. She told me she lives three floors below me, gave me her number, and I left. Every time I see her in the lobby she waves or smiles. (read: NOT a Hired Gun, not a customer-facing role).

    It's been two weeks and I've asked her out twice, but she's been busy both nights. Normally I'd move on but she's still sending IOIs out the wazoo.

    I'm looking to text/talk her up to my place for a little fun instead. Recommendations on how to approach?

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    Default Re: Texting a girl to come upstairs?

    Tell her you want to re-arrange the furniture and you need the opinion of a female. If direct hasn't worked because of her schedule then try indirect to get her up to your place.

    Read her body language for IOIs when she comes to help you. Escalate if you are getting lots of IOIs.

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    Default Re: Texting a girl to come upstairs?

    Thanks for the reply. I have this plan in my head, and I could use a 2nd opinion.

    I'll get her upstairs through an indirect (I like the furniture thing). I'll segue into talking about crazy TV shows/reality shows, and tell her I just started watching Keys to the VIP and ask a female's opinion. We'll laugh together at how stupid the guys are, which will separate me from the guys on the show.

    I'll turn to her, do Mystery's "trust test" (because we're friends now, right?) and drop the scale of 1-10 how good of a kisser are you trick.

    I'd appreciate any feedback.

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    Default Re: Texting a girl to come upstairs?

    Lmao just cause you think it that way doesn't mean it'll happen like that. You gotta think of a plan B if that doesn't happen your way
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: Texting a girl to come upstairs?

    Avoid taking about TV shows. Just stick with re-arranging the furniture. Check for IOIs , escalate and tell her she deserves a drink. Reward her with a drink for her help and for the IOIs you received.

    Then take it from there.

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    Default Re: Texting a girl to come upstairs?

    Thanks for the feedback, gentlemen.


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