Hey guys, I'm new to the Forum. Was directed here after reading some NLP and Mystery method related material. I took a particular interest in Neil Strauss' "The Game" and realized that I was left with more questions than answers. So here is a glimpse into my current conundrum.
I met this girl at college a few months ago, seemed to originally attract her and get her attention, but it has died out. I haven't spent any 1 on 1 time with her because she "isn't looking for a relationship in any shape or form" and feels that hanging out with me would fall under the "date" category. We text a bit but nothing significant. My question is how do I draw her attention and maker her want to initiate conversation? Likewise, how would I be able to entice her via text messages to spend some one on one time? She doesn't exactly live around the corner and I changed school to study something different so I won't be crossing paths with her unless I take the initiative to do so.
Unfortunately the internet/cyber world has become the new "it" place for foreplay. It is difficult for me to circumvent current obstacles (such as her lack of interest, lack of initiative and explicit desire to avoid 1 on 1's). How can I instead use this texting game to my advantage?