itís been 4 times recently that I take a girl home and fail to move from couch to bed.
Each time taken separately I donít mind too much, but 4 is not so pleasurable .
All the times I went to a park, sitting on the grass with a beautiful view with a bottle of wine. Usually many people are there.
Conversation has been good most of the times.
I do touch the girl, but not overtly sexual and I don't get too close and I donít kiss before we get home (and ho hand holding).
I never had to insist too much to get home, and I donít think they thought of me as just a friend.
3 I brought home on the first date, 1 one the second as she was very cautious/scared around strangers and had class the day after.
I start kissing quite early on the couch.
The kiss is either accepted at first try (3 cases) or after a couple of tries (1 case).
Since itís the first time we are so physically close together and it can seem a bit pushed, I keep the conversation going after the kiss as if it were no big deal.
And then I go at it again. Usually no strong make out comes out, but I do have my arm around them, touch their belly, touch their boobs.
This can last around 15-20 minutes with me intermittently going for the kiss.
Then, I say Iíd like to go to the bed and stand up.
1 we were at our second date, she said no and that she had to catch her last metro (true), I will meet this one again;
1 didnít want to, also commented how did I have the courage to ask for that. She said she ďknew my typeĒ and how classical for people from my Country, asked how many girls did I bring home etc. etc. (this one I will not see anymore, wasnít sexually receptive and I think she reminds me as a creepy guy after having moved so fast on a physical level);
1 was very inexperienced, was closing her body crossing her arms almost as if she wanted to fend off an attack, she had a BF but didnít tell me about it (I think she was too into me to give up on the chance of being together);
1, this evening, stood up and followed me, but then chickened out before bed and fumbled nervously she couldn't and had to go (she had a BF).
I think an issue was that she was completely dressed, maybe I should have made out with her while standing and started removing clothes (my idea was hugging/touching/kissing on the bed and start removing);
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