What you should do if you are making out and grinding on the dance floor?
I think this is an important thing for us to talk about, because I think it is easy to make mistakes at this part of the game. I would like to know what other PUA’s do when they are in this situation. Below I have written the story of my success and failures when I have been kissing and grinding a girl on the dance floor.
Ok, your game is going well and you have found a girl on the dance floor and you have been successful in getting her to make out with you and grind with her, so you think that you are going to get laid for sure right? Wrong!
Women are not like men. Generally for a man, if we are willing to make out and grind with a girl on the dance floor then we are also willing to have sex with the girl. But, women are not like this, they are very comfortable making out and grinding, but generally they won’t sleep with a guy just because they are willing to grind him.
I learned this the hard way, by having two HB’s on separate nights grinding and making out with me, but I was not able to get them to come home with me, and I was also not even able to get a date with either of them. Because I did nothing more than demonstrate value and then make out and grind with them, all I would be to both of these girls, was some guy that they made out with when they were drunk.
The next time I got into this situation, I knew that I needed to do more if I was going to get laid. After I had been able to kiss the girl, I asked her to leave the dance floor with me and go out to the courtyard because I told her I wanted to get to know her better. She agreed and followed me.
As soon as we came out side, I stoped being sexual to her, and I just went back to being normal. I talked about normal conversation topics that everyday people just talk about and then I also talked about how I felt about her. I said very clearly that I liked the feeling of being with her, and that I hoped that we could continue to know each other after the night had ended. She was happy to agree to this.
By doing this, in her mind I have now moved beyond being just some Horney guy on a dance floor. I am now a normal respectable gentleman, and I was attracted to her because of my feelings for her as an individual and not because I just wanted to have sex. Now she is interested in me beyond her fleeting physical desires.
As a result of this move I was invited to join this girl and her friends and I was invited go to another club with them.
By the end of the night I was eventually able to make a full close after spending a few more hours building trust and comfort.
I hope you guys can learn from my mistakes.