Re: Message for the Newbies
Originally Posted by Devil_dog
Yeah bro down and dirty just the way I like it. We all know what we need to hear but we like our little safe zones, circles of comfort, certain ways of doing things, not talking to people is easy, etc. However when you mentioned that it really shuts me up since I know I haven't been living the way I should be living. Just yesterday saw a banging 9 walking out the store "perfect moment to approach" isolated, hot, super rich, dressed well, fancy car, even fancy bags, man what a woman! And what did I do? Oh there is an old dude there I can't approach her. Yeah like a little rabbit boned out again due to insecurity. I have done 100 approaches now which is like the magic number for me and STILL get caught off guard. Man how could this ever happen?
But anyways yes I am very good at approaching females when I make a plan, purpose, and intention of going out but these one-off scenarios are killing my confidence. I need to up my game and stop being such a little weak AFC. My plan, purpose, and intention for next year is intense hitting up Pool Parties, Holiday Events, Bars, Clubs, Water Parks, Amusement Parks, Street Game, Outdoor Malls. Essentially I will be swimming in chicks next year and going to be so drained hitting it hard but day game and Night Game will share no quarter. I am doing this because I falsely think "Day Game is harder" or "aa can't approach her" when I look back it would have been SOOO easy to approach and if I could go back I would approach and I would have the perfect thing to say but in the moment something happens you stall, you fight to breath, you struggle should I or shouldn't I. It's scary to do new things but that is the challenge for next year to get it freaking together man and never have it happen where I am chickening out due to insecurity but going for the approach, the approach at every possible time going for the approach. I am not there YET but slowly my confidence is building and the more I miss sets the more it motivates me to get better and get stronger. Not there yet..but one day? Who knows? Maybe next year I will do 200 approaches and even get some one-off scenarios in there. I could have had a sugar momma right now if me and that King Soopers chick hit it off but I guess time will tell. (On a side note on a hold till Spring/Summer when I am back in action and my Outer Game is a little tighter but I should still approach on these one-off scenarios like in the Barbor Shop, At the Store, etc)
101 Sets, 30 #'s, 4 K-closes, 1 Date, 1 Bar Pull. My next adventure starts Summer 2014 at the Brewfest, Water Park, Bars, Clubs, etc. Getting Hotels now to prevent driving drunk so really only 2-3 times a month doing Night Game June-Oct. Lots of Day Game.