Happy Labor Day, fellow PUAs. Disaster struck recently and I'm sending an SOS to you guys.
Over the past three months I'd been texting this girl from out of town, and building a mountain of attraction. She's a shy girl who's only slept w one person, but I slowly pulled her out of her shell until recently we were sending each other overt sexual innuendo, and she begged to meet me as soon as she was in town.
I waited a few days before inviting her over, then picked her up last night. She insisted on baking me cookies, so we pulled out the ingredients. We got 90% of the way through baking and were missing one ingredient so had to abort. She was distraught.
I offered her wine to take to the balcony, and she refused to drink so I didn't force it. We chatted on the balcony- I referred back to our innuendo texts playfully, and she wasn't biting. Finally, I tried reverse psychology by telling her to come to my bedroom to watch a movie, "but don't get any ideas, I'm only promising good conversation." We watched 14 minutes of The Great Gatsby and then she asked me to take her home. We barely talked on the way home and I didn't try to kiss her when I dropped her off.
I texted her that night saying "look at our past 3 months of text history- tonight should have gone way better." She responded with "I'm sorry it didn't."
Part of me says f*** it, plenty of fish in the sea, but my inner PUA wants to know what happened to that mountain of attraction I built up.
Thoughts, and ideas on salvaging the relationship?