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    Default I just don't get why women do this

    Something on my mind lately that has been bothering: it's messed up how women say they want relationship and all that but end up cheating on him when they get in the relationship with guys like us( people who somewhat knows the game and all that good stuff). Every girl I seem to talk to always have a bf. I know it's messe up but I always take that as a challenge and go after them. In the end they end up cheating on their bf with me.( to me it's a good thing, but it's messed up how they cheat on their bf though. It's just my thought; it's like they want a relationship while a sexual person on the side... I just don't get it.
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    Default Re: I just don't get why women do this

    Haha It's seems you are doing the game pretty well
    Maybe It's you and those shallow women are magnets to you.
    Try to target other type of girls.

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    Default Re: I just don't get why women do this

    Girls reality is subject to emotional change. Emotions come before logic in a womens mind. if her emotions are pointing in a different direction than her logic than shell follow her emotions every time.
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    Default Re: I just don't get why women do this

    Quote Originally Posted by marvilo View Post
    Something on my mind lately that has been bothering: it's messed up how women say they want relationship and all that but end up cheating on him when they get in the relationship with guys like us( people who somewhat knows the game and all that good stuff). Every girl I seem to talk to always have a bf. I know it's messe up but I always take that as a challenge and go after them. In the end they end up cheating on their bf with me.( to me it's a good thing, but it's messed up how they cheat on their bf though. It's just my thought; it's like they want a relationship while a sexual person on the side... I just don't get it.
    Just like you said, you know about game and the good stuff, this alone gives you a huge advantage over most regular guys (the category that most of these cheated on boyfriends fall into).

    At most, all they can give to the girl is just safety. Unlike an experienced pua that can just come in and blow her brains out.

    They bore them with safety and routine while we bring in all the fun and creativity. Don't tell me you don't enjoy it yo.

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    Default Re: I just don't get why women do this

    Sometimes girls will say they have bfs when they really don't because they are giving you a Sh1t Test. Some of them might have bfs but not all. They want to see what you are made out of. However, it probably is true that many of them will cheat. Maybe they aren't in serious relationships or maybe they are just waiting for the alpha male. Who knows. I remember one time I was talking to a cute girl in a store several years ago. We had a good conversation but then she mentioned she had a bf. At some point after that she smiled at me. I probably could have pursued her and gotten her number but at that time I took her saying she had a bf as a red light and game over. Similar things have happened before. If she mentions the bf first then maybe not pursue it depending on other things like if she continues the interaction. I remember one time kicking myself for not pursuing a girl because she mentioned she had a bf but only because I asked her who she went to do something with.

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    Default Re: I just don't get why women do this

    There's a lot of scientific evidence explaining why women do this, actually. From an evolutionary stand-point, they're wired to find a good provider/caregiver, someone safe and secure who would make a good father. But, at the same time they want (like all organisms) to find a partner with the best genes they can. These two people are not always the same person...

    The closer a woman is to ovulation (and therefore the more likely to get pregnant), the more likely she is to cheat. This has been pretty much proven; you can read about the experiments all over.

    So to put it in game terms: Women are programmed genetically to find a nice beta male to settle down with, someone who's "going somewhere" with his life. But, then she wants an alpha (someone with good genes) to actually father her children. If you are (or can convince her that you are) that alpha male, then you're in there!

    But, that's not to imply that all women will cheat, many won't. It's like someone else said, a lot of times when she says she has a boyfriend she's just testing you or trying to get rid of you. And once you plow through it she decides she's into you... and lets you into her. Lol.

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    Default Re: I just don't get why women do this

    @Lazarus that's true and makes sense to me. Lol it's like one of the reasons I don't date anymore. ( plus I don't like having one girlfriend and cheat). The other is many girls just want to feel the comfort of a relationship while having a good time with other alpha males/ or guys who knows how to mess with her emotions and stimulate her. So everything you said I agree with it.
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    Default Re: I just don't get why women do this

    This is actually a simple question to answer yet complex at the same time. Basically women are exactly like that TC and though I agree with all the responses I would like to add a bit to that. Women do this and continue to do this since they are constantly weighing their options and may get rid of said guy friend if they like you better. They do this because they don't have the freedom men do of approaching women so they entertain attention from a plethora of men while maintaining a BF. Like so many examples here but for instance this one girl...

    Name was Erika HB10 met her at a high profile bar and used my HB7 opener on her "What's up?". Yes epic fail, bad frame control but I barely ever see HB10's! Lost my mind but oh well. Anyway Erika's BF was waiting across the street didn't believe her. Tried to close, fail. Tried to close again near hit. And again massive fail. But she gave me so many chances to open, sustain a conversation, salvage, etc. But I opened wrong, salvaged wrong, and essentially closed wrong. So there you have it, had I done something right it may have gone a different direction as she allowed it to happen and when that happens anything can happen.

    Or for instance..
    Fighting with ex-roommate at Red Robin. Walk in chick 12 a clock checking me hard like I was a diamond in the sky. Oh just my imagination her BF is right there next to her. Move to table 11 a clock from her. Now she is checking me hard this way standing up, oh she is just telling a story. Game breaker. She GETS rid of BF. BF leaves Red Robin alone. WTF moment. Now single female staring super hard looking right at me. Me and ex-roommate fighting even harder. Her face says "Open Me" but never did due to aa and massive fail. With the whole BF just leaving just awe inspiring how willing they are to entertain attention from other men.


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