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    Default Need help with potential FWB with girl in a relationship

    Back story:
    I'm in a relationship but I still tried and failed to seduce her back in December. Had her at my place. Got too drunk, and only managed to make out with her before scaring her off (she also found out I had a girlfriend).

    I apologized the next day, and stopped talking to her. A few months later, she gets back in touch with me, but now she is in a relationship as well. We've been texting for the past 4-5 months. I hung out with her a couple times. I know she cheated on her boyfriend once, told him, and they are still together working through it. The past few weeks, we've been texting daily, and I've been flirting with her. She accepts my invite to come over a couple weeks ago and we just hang out alone at my place, drink, and watch some TV. I didn't want to scare her off again, so I wasn't aggressive at all, but she was still beiny touchy and she eventually initiated some light cuddling with me on the couch.

    I know that doesn't seem like a lot, but this girl knows I am willing to cheat on my girlfriend. She knows I'm willing to cheat with her, and I've obviously been flirting with her a lot recently. We're supposed to hang out again this Thursday, and I wanted some advice. I'm very inexperienced when it comes to these situations, but I feel like she knows my intentions, is okay with them, and is just waiting for me to make a move again.

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    Default Re: Need help with potential FWB with girl in a relationship

    Slow it down.say your kissing her don't go for the sexual body parts immediately, put your hand on her face and around her body...engage in foreplay heavily.then you may transition from there.

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    Default Re: Need help with potential FWB with girl in a relationship

    Quote Originally Posted by HardRock View Post
    Slow it down.say your kissing her don't go for the sexual body parts immediately, put your hand on her face and around her body...engage in foreplay heavily.then you may transition from there.
    Thanks for the advice. So you think I'm good to make a move this Thursday?

    To be specific, I tried once and failed last December. I went to her birthday with her and her friends (and bf) in May. Hung out with her and her friends about a month ago. Then it was just her and I alone two weeks ago having a few drinks. I'm assuming that's the same plan this Thursday.

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    Default Re: Need help with potential FWB with girl in a relationship

    Sure but Isolate her as in get her alone.but don't push for it too hard.Calibrate

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    Default Re: Need help with potential FWB with girl in a relationship

    Yeah.. I've reached the stage where I've been able to Isolate. It's a bit tricky since we are both in relationships, and she has got a pretty busy schedule (I'm certain this isn't her way of avoiding me).

    But yeah, last time we hung out, it was just me and her. She was supposed to leave early to pick up her boyfriend from his class, but she texted him and asked if he could get a ride with a friend and she stayed with me instead (which seems like a good sign for me). We both got a bit tipsy and a bit touchy and she's agreed to hang out with me again. I would think that any girl in a relationship who has already cheated once and doesn't want to cheat again wouldn't put herself in this position, especially with a guy that she knows has tried before and is obviously willing to try again.

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    Default Re: Need help with potential FWB with girl in a relationship

    She must enjoy spending time.either ways you knoe you will nail the escalation.u seem to be fond of her, which is not bad but then it best to keep an open mind at this point.

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    Default Re: Need help with potential FWB with girl in a relationship

    Sorry, what do you mean by 'an open mind'.

    Honestly, when we got back in touch after I had failed to seduce her, my intention was just friends. I figured I had just ruined any chances of anything more, and I was okay with friends. I don't see myself developing feelings beyond a simple FWB situation, though. Both of us are in relationships and it sounds like neither of us wants to change that.

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    Default Re: Need help with potential FWB with girl in a relationship

    Hmm well then you may get that handled..


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