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    Default HB8 in midst of ending previous relationship. Freeze-out or game on???

    Hey guys, first time posting so i'll give a little background... Got out of an LTR a couple years ago and haven't been super interested in getting girls for a while. Have dabbled here and there and never have problems pulling what i want, but recently decided to step up my game.

    I tend towards what i call the surpise approach. (Maybe there's a term for this that i'm not aware of?) I scope out a target and then proceed to game other chicks while i keep an eye on the target and watch for/exchange ioi with her. I wait for the last possible opportunity and the move in and normally get a number within 5 minutes and then disappear. Sometimes i have to deviate and move in more quickly if i feel like she's losing interest. This is just my natural game and it almost always works for me, so i'm sticking with it for now.

    So here's my situation... Went to a concert the other night, last minute decision. It was early in the evening and wasn't really planning to game. But that's besides the point. Ended up next to an HB8 for most of the show. She looked like she was alone and we were exchanging some glances and smiles. Long story short, approached her after music was over. Chatted for a minute, asked if she was with her bf and she said "i'm not sure?". I told her "that's interesting", got her number, then disappeared. So the exchange took not even 5 minutes and i headed back to my bro's place with her number. Sent the "save this number" text within 20 min and got no reply that night. Then i proceeded the next evening with the following texts:

    Me: So i met this really cute girl last night and she gave me her number. Can you help me find her?

    No reply, so 3ish hours later...

    Me: Noooooo! Woman down!!! Oh, the humanity :P

    Her: Haha. Sorry I've been MIA. The truth is I'm in a complicated relationship that's on the verge of ending. It made me smile when you asked for my number and I thank you for that. The timing is just not right. I don't want to string you along.

    Me: I respect that. I don't like to get mixed up in other people's business. However, i do think that sometimes things are more than just coincidence I almost didn't make it out last night and i was happy to have met you. Hope things turn out the way you want them to!

    Her: Thank you. I'm glad to have met you too

    Me: Take care and best of luck!


    So i'm kinda on the fence as to whether i should proceed or back off for a few weeks and then re-engage and feel out where she's at. I think i might have closed the door a bit with my last text and i don't have any info on the relationship other than it's "complicated" which seems like a red flag. She's definitely my type and it seems like a waste to just give up completely. Anyone ever been in a similar situation? Opinions? These texts were yesterday, btw.

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    Default Re: HB8 in midst of ending previous relationship. Freeze-out or game on???

    Gonna put this one on ice for now. Still open to any feedback for future reference. Any ideas for extracting relationship info when they don't seem like they want to discuss it? I'm thinking text was my only option in this scenario. Didn't want to send a million texts, and definitely didn't want to get stuck in the emotional support role.

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    Default Re: HB8 in midst of ending previous relationship. Freeze-out or game on???

    You did well next time stay and build attraction

    Don't need relationship info in this dynamic

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    Default Re: HB8 in midst of ending previous relationship. Freeze-out or game on???

    Yeah, that occured to me for sure. It was a total split-second decision to approach and had to bolt to catch a ride. That's what cabs are for i guess lol. You live, you learn!

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    Default Re: HB8 in midst of ending previous relationship. Freeze-out or game on???

    You may go for it since you got nothing to loose sort of.
    Whenever you text a girl and she does not reply don't go with that sometimes they can make the decision in a split second.

    freeze her out and engage her with something along the lines of:

    Hey met a girl like you same smile, even mannerisms. wont believe what happened

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    Default Re: HB8 in midst of ending previous relationship. Freeze-out or game on???

    I like to keep it a little more organic. The out-of-the-blue "peekaboo!" text never fails. Try it and thank me later

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    Default Re: HB8 in midst of ending previous relationship. Freeze-out or game on???

    Hmm .. there are different dynamics.if say the girl was put a bit off sometimes light and fun may just not cut it.

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    Default Re: HB8 in midst of ending previous relationship. Freeze-out or game on???

    I'm in the 30+ range, so the women are usually pretty hip to the game...

    My read on this was that she came with her bf and he went off on his own and never returned. (Finders keepers?) For her to give me her number within a couple min tells me that she was digging the spontenaity and is obviously in need of some fun, so if i do re-engage i'll be playing that angle. I also get the impression that this was probably an LTR, which is why she wasn't totally into it. This would be a neat little project as i haven't encountered this as of yet!

    Right now i'm in the process of un-clinging a clinger, and as i was typing this i just got an invite from a bartender that i was gaming a while back. Fun time!!!

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    Default Re: HB8 in midst of ending previous relationship. Freeze-out or game on???

    .. interaction was not that bad but obviously you messed up the attraction phase that why you may have gotten that response.

    Me: Noooooo! Woman down!!! Oh, the humanity :P <-- This seems like a fun text used in a way that did not really yield the best results even though it was not wrong but the 'context'.Bad for this situation

    Me: So i met this really cute girl last night and she gave me her number. Can you help me find her? <-- Not bad but then the second text.Amplify attraction!

    Her: Haha. Sorry I've been MIA. The truth is I'm in a complicated relationship that's on the verge of ending. It made me smile when you asked for my number and I thank you for that. The timing is just not right. I don't want to string you along.


    "For her to give me her number within a couple min tells me that she was digging the spontenaity and is obviously in need of some fun, so if i do re-engage i'll be playing that angle."
    The dynamics have changed.tread cautiously.

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    Default Re: HB8 in midst of ending previous relationship. Freeze-out or game on???

    I gotcha. Thanks for the input! Still not 100% on trying any further on this one. I live in a smaller city so i'll probably see her around and i think that's my best bet.


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