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    Default A girl that can't take sexual jokes

    I know some girls who don't take these kinds of jokes and find it very offended. One time a girl told me she needs help with therapy. I try to feed off of her words and told her I'm a Psychiatrist but I don't do therapy for free. I charge $150 per hour, but if she gets naked we'll drop the price to $39.99. She came off very offended telling me she doesn't take jokes like that. Then 3 minutes later was saying she need to go smoke some weed. The heck, that's odd?

    I thought she knew I was playing but I guess not. Anyone that knows me would never get offended. I think she is that serious type. I could never play jokes with her. How do you guys deal with this?

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    Default Re: A girl that can't take sexual jokes

    Tone it down. Go more sexual gradually.
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    Default Re: A girl that can't take sexual jokes

    Quote Originally Posted by Wolf24 View Post
    Tone it down. Go more sexual gradually.
    I think you're right. I could have stop right after I told her I don't charge for free and leave the nakedness for a little bit later. Maybe I was coming off too fast.

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    Default Re: A girl that can't take sexual jokes

    the girls who can't take sexual jokes are the ones who are most turned on by them. they are afraid of how horny it will make them. the same with any religious girl afraid to admit and embrace her sexuality. she keeps it repressed until one day it explodes. every girl wants it. don't be affected by her reaction.

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    Default Re: A girl that can't take sexual jokes

    If she ever gets offended, just roll your eyes and tell her you're kidding. Then accuse her of being slow witted or too serious or a buzz kill. You normally never say your kidding but in this instance u can as long as u accuse her of being boring.

    Also, if she gets offended you could say "oh good that you don't play like that. Girls I meet just want me for my looks or want to just have sex. I'm glad I met a girl who is a little more serious than the rest. As long as you are not boring, you'd make a good friend."

    She may start to qualify herself after saying that btw.
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    Default Re: A girl that can't take sexual jokes

    It could also be because you associated money and sex in the same sentence. No girl wants to be considered a hooker.
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    Default Re: A girl that can't take sexual jokes

    Hey Azn,

    I thought that sh1t was funny. Just make sure to keep your frame. If you are normally like that and would make those kind of jokes, it shouldn't reflect on you, especially if you had success in the past with it. I know cool fun girls who would find that funny.

    I know guys who are so confident that they are able to be honest and leave themselves vulnerable that they would approach a girl and say stuff like "You know, I saw you from across the room and I thought you are the most sexiest girl in the room. And I just wanted to come up to let you know that want to have sex with you." And they are actually successful!

    Vin Dicarlo talks about justifiers and deniers when it comes to sex and this girl seems like a denier. So the approach could've been different, but w/e. She probably freaked out because that is her coping mechanism. For all you know she might've experienced sexual trauma in the past.

    Don't be apologetic. The examples Lockdown gave to maintain your frame is great.

    Again, as I reiterate, different strokes different folks. Humor is broad AND Girls are likes squirrels. Some are skittish and some just come up to you for your nuts.

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    Default Re: A girl that can't take sexual jokes

    What would I do? Honestly, I stopped tailoring my game to appeal to certain girls. It's all about me. I make jokes and laugh about what I think is funny, and if she can't handle that I'm not going to waste my time. Obviously I lose a lot of girls this way, but only the ones I wouldn't have had fun with anyway. Do you really want a girl who is too rigid to laugh at a joke like that?

    In your specific situation I would have asked her what was wrong with her after the joke, and then when she started talking about smoking pot I would have laughed in her face.

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    Default Re: A girl that can't take sexual jokes

    @I.M. Mortal... Nice comment about squirrels! ROTFLMAO!

    Nice avatar too :-)
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    Default Re: A girl that can't take sexual jokes

    Are you serious about this maxtamz? I've crashed and burned on some occasions in a similar way. My mistake was off course to apologize. But do you have empirical proof of this in any way? Have you a lot of experience with this or are you just blowing of some hypothesis of yours?


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