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Thread: How do i escape the friend zone?

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    Default How do i escape the friend zone?

    Ok so i've know this HB9 for a few years now, when i first met her we worked at the same place and she was at a younger age (about 14 or so) i at the time was 16 turning 17, 14 was to young for me to make my move so i told my self id wait till she got a little older. now shes turning 18 soon and shes finally single but i unfortunately managed to land myself in the friend zone for the past few years. i bag on about her boob size from time to time (shes between an a and a b cup) but not in a mean way just jokingly and i can joke about her sex life with out her getting offended. and once in a discussion about guys ulterior motives for befriending a girl being to have sex, she asked if that was mines when i first met her and i told her it wasn't but i'd be gladly have sex with her if she wanted. so i guess she might have a suspicion that im in to her but shes never brought it up after that. in fact after that i started to notice that i saw her less and less. i still talk to her and i've been trying to get us to chill but like i said, i think she might suspect i want to be more the friends and might be avoiding me for it.

    anyways i just want to know if anyone has any suggestions to get myself out cause god knows i've tried. I have a feeling if i out right ask her out i'll get rejected. so any help would be appreciated.

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    Default Re: How do i escape the friend zone?

    Alright first be honest with yourself; do you want to make this girl your girlfriend or just someone you have fun and hook up with? ..... That's the first step ( be clear about your motive!)
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: How do i escape the friend zone?

    girlfriend definitely, i've tried to long to and put to much of myself into it to just hook up with her and be done.

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    Default Re: How do i escape the friend zone?

    No one has any advice they can give me? i really like this girl an want to be more then friends and i don't know how to get myself out from the friend zone.

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    Default Re: How do i escape the friend zone?

    Honestly my advice would be to let her go. If she's avoiding you just because you're into her then she doesn't deserve you.
    And my second advice would be to talk to her like you would someone you want to date not just a friend. Remember she's not that little girl. Don't be that guy she tells her stories to and comes to when she needs a shoulder to cry on. Be the gut that goes after what he wants.
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    Default Re: How do i escape the friend zone?

    I guess your right but i feel like its giving up, and i don't know for a fact that she's avoiding me its just my suspicion. i'm defiantly treating her, her age now, before i'd tease her like an older friend would a younger one, now i talk to her as i would i girl im trying to go out with, but the problem is she still see's me as a friend and i don't know how else to tell her i want to date her. but like i said i think if i ask while im still in the FZ i'll get shot down right away. I just don't wanna give up and regret it for the rest of my life.


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