Re: freezing up on trying to kiss close
My very simple routine is to put your hand around her neck. If you got good enough Kino it's quite easy to do, and it's then very difficult NOT to kiss her
I actually used to freeze during kisses, I once almost got punched by my wingman for freezing out one inch away from an HB10's lips. Now I still have it (and kinda like it, reminds me of this "ohmygod" feeling you had back in the day the first times you kissed girls), and the "hand on neck" thing incredibly helped
Also, additional tip: sometimes when you try to kiss the first time, the girl will turn her head to avoid it. It's okay. Kiss her cheek, her forehead, her ear, her neck, or whatever is in front of you at that time. Then back off and try again later (as in LMR), or keep kissing getting closer and closer from her lips. They like it, it's kinda sweet, not needy, and all that
Seduction is a martial art. Reading books and talking to experts is important, and helpful. But you won't progress unless you go out there and fight.