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    Default freezing up on trying to kiss close

    So if you guys have seen the last couple of posts you would know the girl I'm talking about. So I have been gaming this girl for quite a while. I asked her to go see a movie but I believe that she was sincerely busy. And I have no trouble approaching her. But I keep getting stuck on two things. One is hooks and the other one is Kino Escalation, whenever I talk to her I always have something to say. But quickly after like 3 minutes I run out of things to say. And today I have been doing Kino escalation and I was touching her shoulders and stuff. And I was kinda planning on trying to get a kiss close. But I froze up when trying to think of a reason to put my hands on her waist ( going back yo hooks) and we just did small talk until I had to go, at that time I had a excuse to put my hands on her waist Cus it was just for a hug (it was a little longer than before). But I still kept freezing up when it comes to kiss closing. Any tips? (I always make sure that she doesnt think that I'm freezing up and I know for sure that she is interested in me. )
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    Default Re: freezing up on trying to kiss close

    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    So if you guys have seen the last couple of posts you would know the girl I'm talking about. So I have been gaming this girl for quite a while. I asked her to go see a movie but I believe that she was sincerely busy. And I have no trouble approaching her. But I keep getting stuck on two things. One is hooks and the other one is Kino Escalation, whenever I talk to her I always have something to say. But quickly after like 3 minutes I run out of things to say. And today I have been doing Kino escalation and I was touching her shoulders and stuff. And I was kinda planning on trying to get a kiss close. But I froze up when trying to think of a reason to put my hands on her waist ( going back yo hooks) and we just did small talk until I had to go, at that time I had a excuse to put my hands on her waist Cus it was just for a hug (it was a little longer than before). But I still kept freezing up when it comes to kiss closing. Any tips? (I always make sure that she doesnt think that I'm freezing up and I know for sure that she is interested in me. )
    If she is interested, there is no problem with kissing her. You don't really need a routine or anything. Best times to kiss are after a Buying Temperature spike or after she qualifies to you. BT spike-she's really excited because you said something funny or spun her, or there is some other elation in her life; qualification- she just told you something revealing about herself.

    Just get close enough to kiss her, then kiss her. Does that help ?

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    Default Re: freezing up on trying to kiss close

    Thanks man that helps a lot. I talk to her but I right now at this moment I have a lot of things that needs taking care of that I need to do before I start gaming again.
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    Default Re: freezing up on trying to kiss close

    Quote Originally Posted by BigT View Post
    Thanks man that helps a lot. I talk to her but I right now at this moment I have a lot of things that needs taking care of that I need to do before I start gaming again.
    Gotcha. Take care of your life. When your life is together women sense it and you are hugely attractive

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    Default Re: freezing up on trying to kiss close

    cdharders is right. If she likes you there is no problem.

    I do something which I have not really heard any other PUA guy do for exactly this reason. I will look her right in the eye, smile, and say, "I want to kiss you". I say it as a statement and not a question. It is just a fact. If she does not pull away or object I kiss her. Rarely does it fail.

    A lot of guys will say this is not smooth enough. The fact is - she wants it to happen, so telling her it is going to happen allows her to prepare herself so she is not surprised when I then kiss her. It works great!
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    Default Re: freezing up on trying to kiss close

    I'm kinda freezed out a bit before kisses, there's no problem with that. Just pull the triger!
    If you are still nervous, get very close to her, and after a joke, a good story or something, look in her eyes with smile, and use this routine (I guess credit goes to Mystery):
    "-You want to kiss me!"
    If she smiles, just go for it. If she says: No --> "-Who said you could?"

    One time, when I had problem kissing a girl, but I knew it's time to pull the trigger, so I just leaned there, and state it with a smile: "Kiss!" I don't even remember if I kissed her in the next second, or she kissed me lol

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    Take care of the things you need to take care of in life. When you're ready to get back into Game, the women will be waiting for you.

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    Default Re: freezing up on trying to kiss close

    Normally my take on this is that...I will ask her between kissing and cuddling what does she prefer..It doesn't matter what she gonna choose what matters is this..after she responds..I will say I prefer cuddling and move in for it..after this I will sniff her hair and comment on how good she smells(girls are turned on by guys who sniff them,lick them, both nimble and whisper in their ears)..after 2 minutes straight..you can be sure to move for kiss close with less rejection
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    Default Re: freezing up on trying to kiss close

    Alright thanks guys, I'll probably get back gaming soon and also I'm pretty sure I demonstrated some dhv accidentally so I'm ahead
    I may be a starter but I like to help whatever ways I can

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    Default Re: freezing up on trying to kiss close

    I'm with RedZone on this one, I do the same "I want to kiss you" move from time to time, and it works. It's still about timing though, timing it wrong would be just as bad as moving in for a kiss at the wrong time.


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