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Thread: How do you kiss a girl? on a date or, in this case, in her bedroom

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    Default How do you kiss a girl? on a date or, in this case, in her bedroom

    i went to a party last night at this girls house. we were in an improv class together for 2 months. i always got the impression that she wasn't exactly my biggest fan. we just started another class and it seemed like there was a shift but she is an actress so you never know. when i was at her party i was the last to leave. my coat was on her bed. she led me in there, at 1:40 am. long story short i didn't realize i coulda done something but someone on here said i 100% coulda kissed her 75% coulda had sex. i realized, i have no idea ow i would have started it. in this case i was on the other side of her bed. i assume i can't just silently walk over and plant one on her or corner her and unfortunately, being the awkward movie-goer that i am, those are my 2 instincts. what should i have done?

    also, under non-bedroom circumstances (as thats likely the next one, with or without her), what should i do to initiate a kiss?

    also, I'm seeing her in class on wednesday. what would my next move be? if i had done something what would my next move be (future etiquette reference)? she said she uses tinder a lot. the only thing i can think of is telling her "we should hang out, she doesn't need to rely on tinder" that doesn't seem right though, i feel like that would, at best, get me laughed at.

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    Default Re: How do you kiss a girl? on a date or, in this case, in her bedroom

    Her body langue and ioi's are like a traffic light. They'll tell you went to Stop, Proceed (with caution), or Go. I don't know the background to the bedroom situation, so I can't really advise you on what you should have done, but what I can tell you is that actions speak louder than words.

    I've never used Tinder, but it sounds terrible. Personally, I find that apps and sites like those are complete bs. Just start a conversation with her at the end of class, tell her that you're in a rush (time constant), but you wanted to go try *some dope restaurant* and want her to come with. Don't ask, tell.

    Keep an eye on her body langue and IOI's, like I said, they'll tell you what to do. Best advice about kissing on a date... do it during, not at her doorstep.
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    Default Re: How do you kiss a girl? on a date or, in this case, in her bedroom

    Quote Originally Posted by Bimmer View Post
    Best advice about kissing on a date... do it during, not at her doorstep.
    Tinder is amazing, but do not let it replace regular game. I've gotten laid off Tinder and met cool girls off Tinder. I've responded a lot more about Tinder in the other post to you.

    Best time to kiss a girl: 1) After a Buying Temperature spike (you say something funny that makes her laugh, you spin her, you have a mock wedding) or 2) After she invests something significant in you (She tells you about how she never talks to her parents because of..., she tells you about the death of a loved one)- usually the investment is mid to deep and is generally negative because those emotions are more palpable for a girl.

    Where to be: Preferably in Isolation. I have had situations where I had to kiss the girl in front of friends to keep the set moving, but your odds of sleeping with her increase dramatically if her friends never see you kiss her or too handsy on her.

    How to kiss her: I've heard plenty of techniques and have tried most of them. I am going to tell you one, but understand I do not actually use this anymore. It was very helpful though when I was learning how to kiss. First technique: Tell her you want to give her a butterfly kiss. Every girl knows what this is. Most guys don't. This is where you have your eye lashes from your left eye and her eye lashes from her left eye touching, then wink , so they brush each other. After you do that, tell her you want to do an eskimo kiss. This is where your noses are touching and you shake your head back and forth. Then, tilt your head up and kiss her.
    Another great one to do with a wing preferably is tell the girl you and her are going to get married (sometimes it's valuable to spin the girl to spike her BT), then have your friend marry you two. Have him say whatever, but then kiss when he tells you to. If you're by yourself, I usually do 1 pic of us smiling, one of us doing something silly, then tell her to do the "Calvin Klein" kiss. She'll ask what that is. You tell her it's like the posters where the guy and girl are super close to kissing but not kissing. Then, repeat to her. "Ok, we're going to do this pic, but you have to promise not to kiss me" Take the pic with your phone, then your lips are so close you just need to move half an inch to finish the kiss. Then pull back and say "You weren't supposed to kiss me" then kiss her on the forehead.

    Those are a few ways of kissing. The next step is to talk so close to her that she couldn't possibly reject the kiss even if she didn't expect it. When I'm talking to a girl in a club, usually we are cheek to cheek, so my mouth is at her ear, and our chests are touching, which will subconsciously make her start thinking about sleeping with me (That's a whole nother topic though). Then, as I'm pulling away, I just kiss her. If you're not in a club, think of how you can sit to make it that you are as close to her as possible. Never sit across table etc.

    In your situation in the bedroom, you should have just walked up to her and kissed her at that point. It is a lot better to kiss before the bedroom, but that is how things worked out in this set.

    From here, don't say the Tinder line. Say, "Let's grab a drink" If she's free after acting class, that's best. If her schedule doesn't work out that way, then find out when she is free.

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    Default Re: How do you kiss a girl? on a date or, in this case, in her bedroom

    she mentioned last night when i suggested a drinK (it wasn't just to her, i "asked the class" when no one had shown up yet except me, her, and this other guy) and she said she couldn't because she had to take advantage of a night she could actually sleep instead of clubs or classes or ...

    again, it actually felt genuine. the day i met her, she months ago, i asked her to a concert that i had another ticket to. she kinda counted off her days free out loud to herself and couldn't cause she had to work. she sounded so genuine there to

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    Default Re: How do you kiss a girl? on a date or, in this case, in her bedroom

    Quote Originally Posted by andrewkrs27 View Post
    i went to a party last night at this girls house. we were in an improv class together for 2 months. i always got the impression that she wasn't exactly my biggest fan. we just started another class and it seemed like there was a shift but she is an actress so you never know. when i was at her party i was the last to leave. my coat was on her bed. she led me in there, at 1:40 am. long story short i didn't realize i coulda done something but someone on here said i 100% coulda kissed her 75% coulda had sex. i realized, i have no idea ow i would have started it. in this case i was on the other side of her bed. i assume i can't just silently walk over and plant one on her or corner her and unfortunately, being the awkward movie-goer that i am, those are my 2 instincts. what should i have done?

    also, under non-bedroom circumstances (as thats likely the next one, with or without her), what should i do to initiate a kiss?

    also, I'm seeing her in class on wednesday. what would my next move be? if i had done something what would my next move be (future etiquette reference)? she said she uses tinder a lot. the only thing i can think of is telling her "we should hang out, she doesn't need to rely on tinder" that doesn't seem right though, i feel like that would, at best, get me laughed at.
    Hello Andrewkrs27. Ill tell you my personal way to see how she is ready to go or not. First of all Im not going to tell you how to read her (body languague, IOIs, IODs, Kino, etc) because if you don't know that... You should read some topics here with that info. So, if you don't know how to "initiate" de kiss, there are different ways to do a kiss close. Im going to list some right below
    1. Tic Tac routine: You basically offer her one tic-tac, you of course make sure you only have one in the packet (if you have more take them out and put it on another place) so you lend it to her and then you say "oooh I forgot to tell you but... Im an indian giver and I want my tic tac back" (You go on, take her from the lower back, triangular gazin IMPORTANT, I always do, always work to let the women know your intentions)
    2. The TV test(I use it as a test and a kiss close) look it up on youtube as Lovedrop tv test (way to long to write here)
    3. Kiss Routine: Well... I do a magic trick called, kiss routine I use it as a compliance test, if they accept to give the kiss "for the trick" I know she is already mine. Never fails, you might want to try it out, a pack of Bycicle cards cost 1 dollar, and the trick doesnt take you a WHOLE day to learn it.
    4.THE STARE AT HER: All you have to do is just stare at her until she looks at you and says "what?" and you say, "oh come on, you now everybody knows you are beautiful, your friends think you are beautiful, my friends think you are beautiful, but... Do you kiss as good as you look? kiss her. ---> very good one too.

    I hope that was helpfull for you

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    Default Re: How do you kiss a girl? on a date or, in this case, in her bedroom

    Great advice guys.. I would like to add.. Kino is very important. Bedroom opportunity I will get to.. But first..Like you say ..Ask her to hang out again. However.. No dinner, No movie unless it is part 2 of that same night.. Me personally I love if I can take a girl for a drink or somewhere to lounge and get a drink, I love if she goes to a club with me or meets me at one .. Why? She is gonna dance.. Gonna be close on you and drinking.. instant comfort builder.. Even Dave and Busters.. (thats very top secret info I just gave) its perfect for fun cheap intimate and get a buzz.. You have got to build and and get passed physically and emotionally supressed atraction and chemistry .. club or lounge works every time. ________Kiss: My fav got from Mystery.. 85% success: ME: Can I ask you a serious question? Her: of course ME: Naw.. Your not ready for that.. Her: What What What is it?? Me: U gotta look me in the eyes for this now, this is serious.. How would you...(pause).. How would you rate yourself as a kisser between 1-10?? Her possible answers: 10, I dunno, umm at least a 7or 8, /what do you rate yourself (defensive), I think I'm a good kisser, etc.. etc... My response to all of them: (Staring in her eyes,usually holding her back or hands or shoulders from dancing or hugging or lounging or if you were in her room) Lets find out... (without hesitation go in for it). The only time it didnt work was when I doubted myself for a split second but she gave me the IOIs and another time when I hadnt built enough Kino.. she became my ex 2 years later though

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    Default Re: How do you kiss a girl? on a date or, in this case, in her bedroom

    Honestly they're posting all these kissing routines but none of it is really necessary. They even come off as try hard a lot of the time unless performed with 100% confidence which you don't have (if you did you wouldn't have posted that question here).

    What you should do instead of one of these canned routines is make it seem as if it were natural. Kino is the key. For me, I always start with an arm touch. I continue to do these thoughout every interaction. Like when a girl says somethin funny, laugh and touch her arm. JUST DON'T LOOK AT HER ARM WHEN YOU TOUCH IT! It needs to be natural. Another thing I do is when I neg/tease a girl, I give her a pat on the back or arm making fun of her. This usually results in a playful hit from the girl, which can lead to further Escalation like either hit her back (playfully) or my preference of restraining her (grabbing) while laughing to establish dominance and kino more. Often this would lead to a kiss.

    Anyway, after a few arm touches, assuming it is a date or we are isolated and assuming there is a bit of Sexual Tension between the two of you, I go for the hand hold. This has ALWAYS been the biggest hurdle, as its overtly sexual and shows shes into you. If she complies (doesn't pull away), then you have the go ahead to kiss her. After holding her hand for a few mins, wait for her to stop talking then go for the kiss. Its as easy as that. I become much less responsive to everything she says and dont keep the convo flowing. Eventually she'll stop talking, then i go for the kiss. I like to touch her cheek first and then just kiss her. I've never seen a girl who lets a guy touch their face reject their kiss.

    From the kiss, hopefully your in a place where you two can fark. If not, then escalate as far as making out and groping over clothes then tell her "let's get outta here" and go to a place you can fark. Its as easy as this.

    A few tips that will help it become more natural for you:
    -It may sound weird but I kino a lot on my mom when we're talking. Its important to practice on someone you aren't attracted to and someone you trust. They will be receptive of it and it will become more natural. (by kino my mom i mean touch her arm when talking).
    -Kino ANYONE AND EVERYONE - not just girls you're trying to get with. This includes guys.
    -Make up secret hand shakes, palm reading is always good.
    -Smell the girls hair and tell her it smells good. Major turn on for girls and hair is a very intimate place for them
    -read Vin de Carlo's Kino Escalation guide, very detailed (if you want a step by step type thing). Just google it.

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    Default Re: How do you kiss a girl? on a date or, in this case, in her bedroom

    Hello Andrewkrs27, I will give you some advice that I learned on the internet and that has worked for me before.

    Women are as sexual (if not more sexual) than guys are. Most of the time, this "turbo" make-out session never happens, because so many guys are afraid to go for it. And when this doesn't happen, the girls end up going home alone or worse.. staying being kind of mean to a lot of guys in the bar/being resentful and angry because no one's approaching them.

    By putting this technique into practice, You want to discover how to see the women who you're able to make out with in 40 seconds or less in the first place.

    There are a few excellent indicators that will (especially in party atmosphere) tell you if a woman is game, or ready for an instant make-out session.

    The first indicator is a woman looking down often. When a woman looks down often, she is accessing her emotions.

    Let me explain... When we look in different directions, we access different parts of our brain. These are called "Eye Accessing Cues." When a woman is in a bar setting and looking down, she's accessing her emotional brain.

    If she makes eye contact with you, looks down then back up again, she's saying: "I have an emotional response to you looking at me and I'm looking down." And if she tilts her head down as well (and doesn't just use her eyes to look down), she's physically dropping herself a little bit lower and showing submission.

    This gives you the ability to walk up and be the dominant man.

    Now, if she looks at you, smiles and doesn't look away, this could be a lot more difficult situation. Socially, she's meeting you head on, and not showing immediate submission.

    Women who you're going to be able to walk up to and make out should automatically take the submissive role as a woman. That's one quality which shows you'll be able to quickly make out with her.

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    Default Re: How do you kiss a girl? on a date or, in this case, in her bedroom

    well, i'd start by holding her hand a little, touching her hair, maybe a massage, and you will feel her get excited by your touch and you slowly lean in and go for the kiss. don't be too eager to get it.


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