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    Exclamation How to be a good lover and give girls orgasms

    “Nothing much to do... I’m at home and I
    think I’m so addicted to your passionate
    sex... I still can’t get over last night… I love
    If you’re not regularly receiving text
    messages like that, even from seasoned
    party girls - and you could use a primer on
    how to be a good lover - read on.
    The next text she sent me was:
    “Hmm… what is your secret magic?”
    I didn’t tell her… but I’m going to tell you.
    And if you don't know how to make girls
    crawl the walls, you really need to learn
    how to. It does a lot for your confidence…
    and it does a lot for your ability to hang
    onto a girl you really like.
    Really, there's no reason that you shouldn't
    be able to give a girl an orgasm multiple
    times when you're sleeping with her.
    And once you're able to do this, then
    you can approach women knowing that
    you will give them the best sex of
    their lives... And that's powerful.
    What IS “Good In Bed”?
    If you ask just about any man whether or
    not he’s good in bed, 99% of guys will say
    that they are.
    Just like most guys think they’re a better
    than average driver…
    But of course, that’s impossible. Only 50%
    of drivers are better than average. And it’s
    not automatically the 50% that are male…
    The point is, we guys have a big ego and
    we often have a very optimistic view
    of our own abilities when it comes to
    any skill that is associated with
    masculinity … and for that reason, we
    often don’t seek to improve our skills in
    that area.
    Including how to be a good lover.
    I used to be the same way… until I started
    to get into tantric sex and other oriental
    sexual practices.
    And suddenly I realized that most people
    don’t know what “good in bed” even means!
    The first girlfriend I had after studying
    some of these techniques was able to come
    three times within 90 seconds… and I’m
    not even talking about serial orgasms, but
    three separate ones.
    Sometimes her climax would last for five
    minutes… and I once counted her coming
    19 times in one single night.
    The next morning, she was sitting on my
    bed, leaning back against the wall and
    staring at the ceiling… she could hardly
    string a complete sentence together
    anymore – and she, too, wanted to know
    where in the WORLD I had learned how to
    do that.
    I’m going to reveal some of the secrets of
    being really good in bed right here.
    Hittin’ What Spots, Now?
    Some guys apparently still struggle to find
    the clitoris… I don’t assume you’re one of
    them, but if you ever have to explain it to
    your friend who doesn’t do anything other
    than play World of Warcraft, tell him it’s
    the thing above the vagina that feels like a
    mouse wheel.
    Different strokes for different chicks…
    some girls like it when you rub their clit
    very gently, barely touching it even. Others
    like it rough and you can use your flat hand
    and rub it back and forth as fast and hard
    as you can… you have to gauge her a little
    And make sure you use plenty of lube if
    you do the latter…
    So that’s the clit.
    The second spot is a little bit more
    interesting – I’m talking, of course, about
    the infamous G-Spot.
    The G-Spot – A Myth?
    Believe it or not, there was an article on
    BBC not too long ago, claiming that the G-
    Spot “ doesn’t appear to exist.”
    If you’ve ever seen how women respond
    when you stimulate their G-Spot, you will
    find that claim as hysterical as I do - I can
    only conclude that the scientist who wrote
    that paper not only made a fool out of
    himself by publicly proclaiming that he is
    unable to pleasure women, but also that he
    needs to get laid more… a lot more.
    Somebody needs to point him to our
    Yes, the G-Spot does exist – anatomically
    speaking, it is the female equivalent of the
    prostate… just like the clitoris is the
    female equivalent of the penis.
    It can be found inside the vagina, and you
    can easily reach it with your middle
    finger… it becomes engorged when a
    woman is aroused, and stimulating it can
    cause female ejaculation.
    Just like with the clitoris, different
    women like to have their G-Spot
    stimulated in different ways … some
    like it when you move your finger in a
    circular motion, others prefer a quick back-
    and-forth from left to right, and some like
    a gentle come-hither motion…
    The possibilities are endless, and you will
    have to find out what she likes best by
    trying a few different things and seeing
    how she responds… it’s also a good idea to
    ask her.
    Communication is always a winner in any
    In the end of the day, however, this isn’t as
    much about technique as it is about
    psychologically stimulating a woman by
    being a strong masculine man who takes
    the lead.
    The Deep Spot
    This spot is a little bit harder to find than
    the other two… and as its name suggests,
    it’s pretty deep inside a woman’s vagina.
    In fact, it is so deep that a surefire way to
    find it is to move your fingers so far
    inside that you can feel her cervix… then
    bend your fingers a bit, and you’ve got it.
    The Deep Spot is made up of the muscles
    that contract when a woman orgasms…
    which means that if you massage and
    stimulate these muscles, you can’t
    HELP but give a girl orgasms .
    It’s really cute to see the expression on
    their faces when they realize that, even if
    just for a minute, you completely own
    them… you own their pleasure, and you can
    send their mind on a rocket ride to the
    moon and back.
    This is what causes sexual addiction… if
    you get this technique down and use it with
    a girl, you won’t have to worry a whole lot
    about how to make her want you and to
    keep her around once you’ve slept with her.
    Women just can’t get enough of this one!
    Note that the Deep Spot isn’t actually
    a “spot” … It reaches from the front of her
    anterior fornix (below her belly button) all
    the way to the back, near her rectum…
    …and by the way, if you stimulate the back
    of the deep spot during anal sex, it can
    make some girls speech impaired for a
    while from the endorphin overdose!
    The R-Spot
    I took the liberty of naming this spot after
    myself, because I haven’t seen anybody
    write about it before.
    The R-Spot is right between the G-Spot and
    the Deep Spot… and it is very small.
    In fact, it feels a bit as if there was a grain
    of rice under her skin… and not all girls
    even seem to have this spot.
    With girls who DO have it, however,
    you can often get them off in seconds
    by stimulating the R-Spot … look for it.
    You might be in for a surprise…
    Which brings me to my next point. Not all
    girls are the same sexually… and while
    this might sound obvious, there are still a
    lot of “gurus” out there who claim that you
    can give the same sexual experience to any
    That is simply not true…
    It’s the same with guys… some of us get
    off on a blowjob in seconds. I even know
    guys who prefer it to sex!
    With others, a blowjob does nothing for
    them and they’ve never had an orgasm
    from oral sex in their lives.
    And it’s the same with girls. Some can
    come 15 to 20 times in a single night… that
    is absolutely true. Others might experience
    only a couple of orgasms or even none at
    And while it’s possible to teach a girl that’s
    never had an orgasm before how to let
    herself go and cum for the first time in
    her life, that is a bit beyond the scope of
    this article.
    But by the same token, some girls have a
    higher sex drive than others.
    I’ve dated girls who were perfectly fine
    hanging out with their boyfriends or the
    guys they were dating and not have sex
    with them… yeah I know. That sounds
    insane to me too.
    But it’s reality.
    On the other hand, I’ve known a couple of
    girls whose sex drive outstripped just
    about ANY guy’s… I’m talking about
    chicks that you pleasure for four
    hours straight and after round four
    they jump you again and get all
    disappointed and sexually frustrated
    if you run out of steam !
    Fortunately, we still have our hands… and
    if you learn some of the techniques above,
    you can really do some magic and hold a
    total monopoly over her sexual pleasure.
    You better believe she’s going to call you
    How to Be a Good Lover: Beyond
    As I mentioned above, it’s not all about
    technique. And while it’s not true that
    technique doesn’t matter at all, you also
    can’t give a girl the night of her life just
    by going through a million different
    positions and ways of stimulating her
    The mental component is important,
    as discussed above…
    …and sex with a woman begins the
    moment you first talk to her!
    It’s all in the psychological build-up, you
    And if you combine that with physical
    build-up, you have a girl that will be so
    ready to go and dripping wet before you
    ever start having sex with her that she’s
    going to BEG you to penetrate her…
    …which, by the way, will also make it
    ten times more likely that she’s
    going to have an insane amount of
    orgasms and experience the night of
    her life with you.
    So what IS good foreplay really? Some
    kissing, some fondling, some caressing?
    Nah… that won’t do it. Every guy does that.
    Here’s how you can set yourself apart.
    Preheating the Oven
    Want to know how to be a good lover for
    your girl? Well, here are a couple of things
    you can do to make her weak at the knees
    and melt in your arms before you even get
    started… and a couple of secret tips and
    tricks to give a girl orgasms, and for the
    actual sex as well:
    Smelling her neck, breathing into her ear
    and licking her skin: Lick a spot on her skin
    so it becomes moist, and THEN breathe on
    it. Your warm breath will make the saliva
    evaporate and give her the shivers. Works
    best on her breasts or her neck.
    Run your fingers along those parts of her
    body where the light thin hair is… the hair
    that is barely even visible. Stay about a
    millimeter above her skin, so you don't
    touch it… but you do brush that hair.
    Goosebumps guaranteed.
    Biting - a very sensual, slow bite that can
    be very erotic to a woman. You can also
    byte her whole lower jaw... I’m not even
    sure why this turns many women on so
    much, but I suspect it’s because it’s such an
    expression of raw passion and desire.
    Ass smacking – this really depends on the
    girl. Some women only get really aroused
    if you are super affectionate and sweet
    with them, others won’t leave your
    bedroom happy unless you smack them in
    the face and dominate them like a rag doll.
    Be careful with this and ramp it up slowly
    to find out what she likes.
    Tease her – licking or even just touching a
    girl around her vagina or her breasts (not
    actually on them initially) is extremely
    powerful. You can also lick her tits, but only
    for half a second and pull back… Wait 5
    seconds and do it again. Avoid her nipple
    and tease her stupid.
    For cunnilingus, try to pretend like you're
    French kissing her vagina as if it was her
    mouth. It’s as exciting to them when they
    can tell you’re really enjoying her as it is to
    us when a girl looks us straight in the eyes
    with desire while she’s giving a blow job.
    Kisses - For some reason girls really like it
    when you kiss them all over their bodies...
    You can even give a girl little peck kisses
    all over her face. The same goes for softly
    touching her face, for your cheek touching
    her cheek and even for cupping her face
    with your hands as you make out with her.
    Put her legs on your shoulders or your
    chest, with her pelvis tilted up while you
    have sex with her – that way you can really
    hit her deep spot as you penetrate her, and
    her own knees will be massaging her
    Pull her nipple strongly with your lips, or
    softly with your teeth… then lick the
    middle of her nipple quickly up and down,
    back and forth with your tongue. Also try
    going in circles, around the nipple… you
    can even spiral your way from the outside
    in, getting closer and closer, always going
    in circles.
    The reason why this is such a turn-on for
    women is because the nerve endings at the
    skin of her breasts are arranged in circles.
    Massage both her G-spot and her Deep Spot
    from the inside and the outside (her belly)
    at the same time.
    If you're good at multitasking, you can even
    stimulate your girl in four ways at the
    same time, with your left and right hands,
    your mouth and your member.
    While she's on top, raise your hip and just
    shake it back and forth. You can get a good
    angle at her spots that way, and her whole
    body is pretty much at your mercy... which
    is a huge turn-on for most women. She’s on
    top, but she has no control over what's
    happening to her at all.
    As you stimulate her G-Spot, instead of
    doing a come hither motion, go left and
    right, back and forth, with your middle
    finger, and extremely fast. The gland
    should swell and so your finger will slide
    off the gland on either side every time you
    cross it.
    That’s a whole bunch of dynamite I’ve just
    given you to play with… and as such, I have
    to give you a warning.
    Do NOT use this full arsenal on
    women you’re not in the least bit
    serious about. You can REALLY create a
    powerful sexual addiction in women if you
    do, and you don’t want women you’re seeing
    only casually to get too attached to you.
    You need to be careful you don't hurt a
    girl by doing this with the wrong girl.
    Trust me on this, there is absolutely NO
    benefit whatsoever in getting girls
    to fall in love with you when you’re
    not in love with them . It will only create
    drama, they will give you the ultimatum
    and what could otherwise be a pleasant
    experience for everybody will end in
    tears .
    So reserve the real nukes for the girls you
    REALLY like.
    It will be one heck of a solid foundation for
    a relationship if you can rock her world…
    like no man she has EVER met, nor will
    ever meet… in her LIFE.
    See you later.

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    Default Re: How to be a good lover and give girls orgasms

    Sorry I double posted..This an article I came across online by Ricardus..a sex expert or should I call him sexual engineer? have fun reading it

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    Good Info. Thanks for sharing.

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    Default Re: How to be a good lover and give girls orgasms

    it's good info, i recommend any guy to search for more in depth info on this topic and become masters at making any woman orgasm. to keep a harem of women satisfied that's what u havew to do.

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