Ever since, I have came to the wonderful site, I have been picking all the posts and stickies I can get my eyes on. My game has improved tremendously and I'm getting loads of numbers, mostly with ease. I find that the more I stay in the conversation or the more time that goes by between getting a date, the more interest fades.
This is mainly, concerning day game. Maybe, Im lingering too much or maybe im just making the wrong move, when I get their numbers. I either text right away or wait an hour or so and I text something cute/funny, to set me apart from others. Ive been told by women Im different and in a good way. I know this attracts them, but I feel like they get deterred after awhile.
Heres two examples...
I went into a starbucks with a friend, that is a girl, and seen a HB8.5 that noticed me as well. After, we got our coffee I told my friend that I was going to go talk to her. We had a great conversation and I had to memorize her number, because my phone was in the other girls pocket. When I sent her a text, I didn't know how to spell her name, so I said This is xxxy/xxxy(x) right? If not, Im going to have to come back here every wed to find out.....No response. And I wonder, did I get her name wrong. Yes I did. Was it because of this? Or because I was with another girl. The hb8.5 asked if she was my gf and I explained "No."
2. A friend and I decided to go to a bar late last night with only about 40 mins before closing time. The place is still somewhat ful from college kids and we get our drinks and scout the place for familiar faces. No one. So, we briefly talk of our options and I decide to lead to a table with a HB6 and 8. Obviously, I set my drink on the table close by the hb8 and provide the introduction of we were looking for familiar faces to engange in good convo and you all look to be in the same boat. So, we chatted it up for about an hour and the HB8 was kino escalating with me and providing IOI's. They were from out of town, so we got their numbers, as they say we can get together when they return. And I didn't exchange mine (maybe I should have?). So, anyway we leave, hug and my friend texts the hb6 asap, wishing a safe return. Later on, I couldn't decide between sending one in the morning or later when I got settled an hour or more later. I opted for the ladder and thought, maybe she would get it and respond when she awoke as it was late. Nothing.
Should I just keep it short and simple? Should I just say screw texting, because its giving me problems and I don't like it anyway. Call instead to set something up definitively with ease and swiftness that text doesn't provide?