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Thread: How to handle LJBF smart and end up in the sack with her?

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    Default How to handle LJBF smart and end up in the sack with her?

    I'm new on the sight and I have some questions to the real and would be experts (excuse my grammar, English is not my native language)

    I'm afraid I could be characterised as an AFC. I've had some successes on the ladies front, but not as many as I wish. My biggest game looser is my inability to stay emotionally unattached as long as I should. Once the girl understands that she is important to me the power shifts and I too often find myself on the defensive. Some girls will try to take advantage of this (something I've learned the hard way to avoid), but most (the nice ones) just loose interest and just set me loose like a cute kitten before the play has even started to get rough.

    To hide my emotions would be the obvious answer. But that's very difficult; so I mostly score with females that I'm not really interested in. Frustrating!!! I too often find myself at the receiving end of LJBF. How the hell do I turn this 'round when it happens (and I know, I shouldn't let it happen in the first place). Any thoughts? What should be my response? I think this is a pretty normal problem and there must be a simple strategy to counter this problem with a relatively good success rate.

    Cut her loose? Say "sure" and give her space? How much space for how long? How to reinitiate contact and spark the attraction she had in the beginning of our interaction before I got emotional (and kind of weak)? I'm a fairly intelligent and well educated guy with good looks etc. How would a pro handle this (except to next her). I live in a rural area and need to take care of the opportunities that arrives.

    Thoughts, ideas, reflections?

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    Default Re: How to handle LJBF smart and end up in the sack with her?

    Lmao honestly just because a girl friend zones or tries to doesnt mean she won't have sex with you. You got to be persistence and talk to her I a sexual way to show your intent. You have to calibrate carefully though, you can't jump from 0 to 10 in sexual escalation all at once. Escaping FRIENDZONE= letting your sexual intention be known. In my opinion it's called FRIENDZONE because friends don't talk about sex, they want it but they avoid talking about it and think the girl will just say " hey, lets have sex"
    You lose some you win some, learn from your mistakes and get better!

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    Default Re: How to handle LJBF smart and end up in the sack with her?

    I didnt read this but this is all you need to know.
    The friend zone is a joke. Literally only means you have rapport, but not enough attraction to get laid yet.
    Just agree to being just friends. Tell her she's your bff and "bro" or "homie" she'll get annoyed quickly by these little disqualifiers. Be more confident, cocky, talk about sex, tell her about how hard you made some girl ***. Tell her about some date you went on and how good of a kisser she was. I mean, that's what friends do right? They talk about these things. You will literally be able to watch her become more and more attracted to you and bothered by talking about these topics just because she'll start getting jealous.
    Oh, & Kino kino kino but make it seem natural. If she brings it up tell her you're best friends and best friends touch each other. Idk dude just be a man and you won't get friend zoned unless you want to.


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