I'm new on the sight and I have some questions to the real and would be experts (excuse my grammar, English is not my native language)
I'm afraid I could be characterised as an AFC. I've had some successes on the ladies front, but not as many as I wish. My biggest game looser is my inability to stay emotionally unattached as long as I should. Once the girl understands that she is important to me the power shifts and I too often find myself on the defensive. Some girls will try to take advantage of this (something I've learned the hard way to avoid), but most (the nice ones) just loose interest and just set me loose like a cute kitten before the play has even started to get rough.
To hide my emotions would be the obvious answer. But that's very difficult; so I mostly score with females that I'm not really interested in. Frustrating!!! I too often find myself at the receiving end of LJBF. How the hell do I turn this 'round when it happens (and I know, I shouldn't let it happen in the first place). Any thoughts? What should be my response? I think this is a pretty normal problem and there must be a simple strategy to counter this problem with a relatively good success rate.
Cut her loose? Say "sure" and give her space? How much space for how long? How to reinitiate contact and spark the attraction she had in the beginning of our interaction before I got emotional (and kind of weak)? I'm a fairly intelligent and well educated guy with good looks etc. How would a pro handle this (except to next her). I live in a rural area and need to take care of the opportunities that arrives.
Thoughts, ideas, reflections?