I lost my virginity the other night thanks to this forum to an HB9. We're both 19-20yr in college, and I was able to F close in a frat as well as go home with her for more (she lives across the hall) as well as one more time in the morning. This girl is very hot - tons of guys are on her line all the time. The sex was probably pretty typical for a first time (I would guess), but nevertheless she wanted it more than me the whole time. It was a struggle to get her even walking home because she was so caught up in hooking up at the frat. We even had to stop at a building halfway (15min walk) because she was getting cold and impatient! I am the first guy she's slept with since her last boyfriend (3+ months ago), and we've gone out to parties as friends (in a group) in the past. My friend hooked up with her a while ago but she didn't let him f-close. He was her only other hookup since the boyfriend.
The next morning I had to leave around 1pm because I had unexpected work - I didn't contact her until the evening, just to see what her plans were. She lives across the hall from me but I felt no need to specifically go out with her that night. I met her out at a frat, and there was already a guy with his hands all over her. I was letting it slide because she was giving me 'inside' or knowing looks and I mistakenly thought her I had her on a leash (I figured she had way too much fun last night to keep it moving that quickly). Every time she saw me looking over she would move away from the guy or use a friend to put some space between them. But he was good and persistent (probably knew some PUA as well). Anyways, I thought it was kind of funny so just talked to other girls and did my own thing in the same room.
Long story short he basically had her to the point of no return last night, the next night after my first lay. However, she was very drunk. Last I saw her, I thought they hooked up, however a friend said there's a good chance they didn't do anything. Either way, she was at that point and that's something I should be able to prevent (with other guys besides me).
How should I respond? I was thinking about being FB or possibly something more with her but that kind of hurt my ego hahaha .. I need to sack up and act right but I am stumped guys. Maybe my emotions are getting in the way too much. Any help would be appreciated.