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Thread: F-Close HB9 x3 (lost my vc!) then an immediate interception

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    Default F-Close HB9 x3 (lost my vc!) then an immediate interception

    I lost my virginity the other night thanks to this forum to an HB9. We're both 19-20yr in college, and I was able to F close in a frat as well as go home with her for more (she lives across the hall) as well as one more time in the morning. This girl is very hot - tons of guys are on her line all the time. The sex was probably pretty typical for a first time (I would guess), but nevertheless she wanted it more than me the whole time. It was a struggle to get her even walking home because she was so caught up in hooking up at the frat. We even had to stop at a building halfway (15min walk) because she was getting cold and impatient! I am the first guy she's slept with since her last boyfriend (3+ months ago), and we've gone out to parties as friends (in a group) in the past. My friend hooked up with her a while ago but she didn't let him f-close. He was her only other hookup since the boyfriend.

    The next morning I had to leave around 1pm because I had unexpected work - I didn't contact her until the evening, just to see what her plans were. She lives across the hall from me but I felt no need to specifically go out with her that night. I met her out at a frat, and there was already a guy with his hands all over her. I was letting it slide because she was giving me 'inside' or knowing looks and I mistakenly thought her I had her on a leash (I figured she had way too much fun last night to keep it moving that quickly). Every time she saw me looking over she would move away from the guy or use a friend to put some space between them. But he was good and persistent (probably knew some PUA as well). Anyways, I thought it was kind of funny so just talked to other girls and did my own thing in the same room.

    Long story short he basically had her to the point of no return last night, the next night after my first lay. However, she was very drunk. Last I saw her, I thought they hooked up, however a friend said there's a good chance they didn't do anything. Either way, she was at that point and that's something I should be able to prevent (with other guys besides me).

    How should I respond? I was thinking about being FB or possibly something more with her but that kind of hurt my ego hahaha .. I need to sack up and act right but I am stumped guys. Maybe my emotions are getting in the way too much. Any help would be appreciated.

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    Default Re: F-Close HB9 x3 (lost my vc!) then an immediate interception

    Dude you are 19. You already fucked her you don't need her anymore.
    Keep her a distance as a backup for drunken nights. She is not girlfriend material so don't try to make her one.

    Congrats on the f-close now on to the next!!!!

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    Default Re: F-Close HB9 x3 (lost my vc!) then an immediate interception

    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    Dude you are 19. You already farked her you don't need her anymore.
    Keep her a distance as a backup for drunken nights. She is not girlfriend material so don't try to make her one.

    Congrats on the f-close now on to the next!!!!

    Word! But I want more from here - is that wrong for me to think that way? She lives across the hall so it would be so convenient

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    Default Re: F-Close HB9 x3 (lost my vc!) then an immediate interception

    But she wants to be free. You will get more but not if you start giving off that needy clingy vibe. Just be cool man. Invite her for a drink casual and you will fuck her again.

    So if you want a gameplan, don't text. Just see her in person and be flirty and cocky. Make sure she sees you with other girls etc.

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    Default Re: F-Close HB9 x3 (lost my vc!) then an immediate interception

    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    But she wants to be free. You will get more but not if you start giving off that needy clingy vibe. Just be cool man. Invite her for a drink casual and you will fark her again.

    So if you want a gameplan, don't text. Just see her in person and be flirty and cocky. Make sure she sees you with other girls etc.
    Easy enough. I didn't plan on texting her unless it was to make immediate plans, because she lives so close.

    I don't think I give off the needy vibe but I'll be extra careful. A lot of the guys I know that can't get anywhere with her are that type

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    Default Re: F-Close HB9 x3 (lost my vc!) then an immediate interception

    Good. But of course do bump into her and when you do be touchy
    dont be awkward. I guess just avoid developing feelings for her so you can keep her as a convenient fuck buddy.

    Congrats man

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    Default Re: F-Close HB9 x3 (lost my vc!) then an immediate interception

    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    Good. But of course do bump into her and when you do be touchy
    dont be awkward. I guess just avoid developing feelings for her so you can keep her as a convenient fark buddy.

    Congrats man
    Thank you man. Appreciate the help. So Kino is important? I'm just now getting a little better at that stuff.

    sounds like an AFC question but how can I help avoid developing feelings? haha

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    Default Re: F-Close HB9 x3 (lost my vc!) then an immediate interception

    Of course Kino is important in everything. It shows you are an alpha male capable and comfortable touching women. In your case with her it will let her know you are used to banging girls and you are comfortable with the situation and will potentially fuck her again.

    Well you can't dude, but avoid oneitis. Try to have more girls on the go dude, that will help your chances of finding a good one to settle down with for a bit if thats what you are looking for. Also this chick sounds like shes going through that slut phase you dont want to fall for her!

    My 2 cents lol

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    Default Re: F-Close HB9 x3 (lost my vc!) then an immediate interception

    Quote Originally Posted by Fuser View Post
    Of course Kino is important in everything. It shows you are an alpha male capable and comfortable touching women. In your case with her it will let her know you are used to banging girls and you are comfortable with the situation and will potentially fark her again.

    Well you can't dude, but avoid oneitis. Try to have more girls on the go dude, that will help your chances of finding a good one to settle down with for a bit if thats what you are looking for. Also this chick sounds like shes going through that slut phase you dont want to fall for her!

    My 2 cents lol
    thanks for the post. I just hung out with her for 1-2 hours and I don't know why, I just didn't feel comfortable using that much kino? It seems our dynamic has shifted (permanent or temporary remains to be seen)

    Her legs were crossed at times, her hand was in that area, and she was showing what seemed to be negative body language. However, she was looking at my lips at one point, but I didn't make the move to kiss. Afterwards, she was laughing and stuff but still keeping a distance from me (we were hanging out on her bed). What should I do? A relationship in the long-term would be fine (we actually share a decent amt in common in a school where a lot of people just 'fit in', and this ISNT one-itis speaking) with me, but I would have liked to hook up with her more and just taken things slow.

    Things seemed to go well the night of, but now it seems almost like I'm a typical friendzoned kid she has to blow off - I can't get the FZ if I f-closed can I ?!? this girl is a wildcard haha

    PS: she seemed to brush off any references to the fact that we had sex or to the night we got together. I'm a pretty easy going / funny guy so it was easy to work around, but it seems the dynamic of our relationship has changed. Unsure if its temporary or permanent.

    Right now I'm going to start focusing on gaming other girls, but I would like to see this one progress

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    Default Re: F-Close HB9 x3 (lost my vc!) then an immediate interception

    Things seemed to go well the night of, but now it seems almost like I'm a typical friendzoned kid she has to blow off - I can't get the FZ if I f-closed can I ?!? this girl is a wildcard haha
    she is a normal girl, normal girls get buyers remorse from one night stands. she probably feels kind of guilty about it. seeing you just reminds her of what she did while she was drunk.

    yes you can get friend zoned after an f-close. hell you can get friend zoned after being married for 10 years.

    you're not all that important to her just because she hooked up with you.

    and now you're developing feelings witch are causing needy behavior, witch is just turning her off even more.

    odds are she has multiple men in her life, you're not very important to her, so why should you make her all that important in your life.

    on another note, oftentimes pua causes you to look more appealing at first, but the illusion can't be kept for more than a short period of time. this is why you will find that many pua's are great at getting one night stands, but have a hard time keeping relationships.

    be happy that you hooked up with her, now you just have to move on and bang other chicks. odds are you won't be hooking up again anytime soon.

    btw congrats on losing your v-card, welcome to the club


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