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    emanus is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default has this happened to anyone else?

    Had an ONS the other night. Never really had to work for it cause she was "below me" (sounds terrible) So, were having sex and she seems to be enjoying it. I wasn't really that horny so after a while I kinda just had her riding me and not really doing anything myself so after a short she stopped riding me and we spent a few minutes kissi g and then she says shes probably gonna go to bed. I say sure, we have a shower and go to bed. I know I'm not an amazing lover at this point but still bit of a hit on my self esteem. I'm prolly not gonna keep in touch with her but in case I run into to her (we live in the same area) how should I handle it? Or am I just nitpicking tiny things I should t give a crap about

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    Default Re: has this happened to anyone else?

    Do the job right or don't do it at all. And that goes for anything you do in life, sex included. If you were not that horny, or if you were not feeling the moment you shouldn't have engaged in that activity.

    By the way, no one is a perfect lover, it's all about understanding her responses to your touch and emphasizing on the touch that have positive responses and cutting out the ones that draw negative ones.

    I will just try and be myself whenever I see her, not worrying too much about what happened.
    Nikee --Just did it--

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    Default Re: has this happened to anyone else?

    Who cares? Sometimes you get into it and your just not feeling it. I've had that happen with gorgeous women before. I get going and for whatever reason after 20 minutes I'm not feeling it anymore and I tell her I'm done.

    This shouldn't be a hit on your self esteem. It probably wasn't that good for her because you weren't into it and she could sense that.

    Your not going to be you best in bed EVERYTIME. It's allot of work and your mood and attraction to the girl all contribute to it.

    When you see her act like you always do around her. Act like it's not a big deal because it isn't.


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