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    Default Need tips on escalating on a date

    I've gone on a few dates and I realized that I have a problem escalating and with Kino. So when I go for the kiss at the end of the date, they are surprised most of the time.

    What are some techniques that will help me escalate so that things are a bit more sexual and so the kiss happens more naturally?

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    Default Re: Need tips on escalating on a date

    Start right away when you're on a date. If you shake or touch her hand comment on how smooth her skin is. Ask her what products she uses to get the skin so soft. Whatever the answer is then go and feel her skin again. Just keep escalating from there.

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    Default Re: Need tips on escalating on a date

    I don't usually begin escalation right away but I do plant the seed. Usually give her a hug right away or pretend to be really excited to see her and carry her into the restaurant and hold her hand or lock arms with her on the way to the table but Make sure you use roll offs appropriately. Occasionally through dinner I'll make up an excuse to touch her but not so often that it's noticeable. This will sound stupid and might not be advised but I try to squeeze in the majority of my escalation in the walk from the table to the car and if I don't feel like I have enough I'll convince her to go on a walk with me if I can manage.
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    Default Re: Need tips on escalating on a date

    I usually let escalation flow. It's one of those things, as you do it and mess it up it will begin to come naturally to you.

    Generally a hug is a good idea to start, hands on the small of her back, pull back a bit but don't let go, look down into her eyes for just a moment (less than a second) and break away gently. That is just one move I use regularly. The thing is we can't really "teach" you moves or how to escalate. You have to use trial and error to calibrate this, because if you are thinking about it, you will come off as clumsy and that is never good.

    One piece of advice I can give for calibration though, if you feel her start to pull away you need to break contact asap and make it appear that you were breaking the contact first. She should feel just a bit off kilter, perhaps even that you are pulling away at the same time.
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    Default Re: Need tips on escalating on a date

    Here's the thing, I'm going on a date with this girl but she's a friend that's been giving me tons of IOIs since I broke up with my gf a month ago. We are in the same group of people but we all hang out together. Hugs are a normal thing amongst us so I need a few tips of how to make it more sexual or at least more than just a friendly hug.

    I like to play the game that describes someone's personality based on what finger that have a ring on and it involves greek gods. I hold the girls hand the entire time.

    Or the palm reader trick where you pretend that you can read palms and in the end you joke by saying "and this is your gullible line, the biggest one on your hand. Apparently you like to believe everything you're told"

    Also how do I go for the K-close, I don't want to do it at the end of the night when I'm about to drop her off.

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    Default Re: Need tips on escalating on a date

    Quote Originally Posted by Konstantin View Post
    I like to play the game that describes someone's personality based on what finger that have a ring on and it involves greek gods. I hold the girls hand the entire time.
    I totally love this one too.

    Anyways the most important is Kino,like everyone said,Kino like it's natural don't do awkward touches or something weird,give her a hug when you meet her or a kiss(on the cheek) whatever goes for you,do it naturally don't think too much,at this point I kiss most of the girls(except the ones I work with) I know when I meet them it's like shaking a guy's hand,it's a natural thing,I remember back in middle through highschool everyone was kissing girls(on the cheek,saying hi),and I would be the only one who wouldn't get a kiss,because I was tense and awkward about it.

    Anyways,I would usually just offer arm in arm if I feel comfortable and don't have an anxiety attack
    If not I would do it once I get comfortable,they rarely refuse because it's also a comfortable way of walking with a girl,especially on a date.
    But if you do this,don't hold it tight and release it once in a while,when you're talking,you're using your hands,so release them once in a while to show her something with your hands(while explaining something),and then go back arm in arm,it will also get her used to having you arm in arm and the 2nd or 3rd time you can see if she complies.

    Most likely yes and she will feel more comfortable too.

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    Default Re: Need tips on escalating on a date

    You want to use eye contact for sure man. When you hug her, like I said hold a bit longer and stare into her eyes. Let her just barely "catch you" staring at her. How you use eye-contact can be very helpful in this situation, though there are many, many other ways.
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    Default Re: Need tips on escalating on a date

    We're going bungee jumping. How did I do?

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