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    Default Hanging out with the ex today...need help

    So after 3 months of no contact my ex, she asked me to hang out so we can catch up and we're going to be at her place because she has to baby sit for her uncle. We ended on a good note, both of us started losing interested after 9 months so we just ended it.

    Ideally ,I would like to turn her into a FWB. I saw her on Tinder and I know she's single and our sex life was terrific. I just need to know what's a good way to bring it up.

    I'm having conflicting thoughts. On one side, this will be the first time since we talked/hung out since 3 months ago, so I feel like I should take it slow, hang out with her a few more times and then bring up the topic. I know she has no problem with being FWB.

    On the other hand, I have her right where I want her. We're alone at her place and we have a history of great sex.

    How do I go about this?

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    Default Re: Hanging out with the ex today...need help

    You should hold off. She will be expecting you to put the moves on her and you definitely should not. Leave the interaction on a high note with an excuse that you're busy doing something else.

    If she tries to put the moves on you, then let her for a second, and then pullback and say you'd rather take it slow. Then pop the excuse to leave out.

    The goal here is to create enough sexual Tension between you two that she will be more than willing to be FWB with you. Good luck!
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    Default Re: Hanging out with the ex today...need help

    Yeah I was leaning more towards that, should I avoid kissing too? - that might give off a boyfriend vibe...

    What are some good ways to create sexual Tension?

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    Default Re: Hanging out with the ex today...need help

    Yea, I wouldn't kiss her. You might want to get close like you're going for the kiss but pull back. Anything to create a bunch of Tension.
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    Default Re: Hanging out with the ex today...need help

    How about talking about our sex life? Get her to remember how good it was, have her thinking about it so she gets turned on?

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    Default Re: Hanging out with the ex today...need help

    I wouldn't--I'd keep it as non-obvious as possible. Play it cool. Make your life sound good. Use a lot of innocent Kino. I also wouldn't hang with her too long. Give her enough of you to make her want you, but don't give her enough to satisfy her desires.
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    Default Re: Hanging out with the ex today...need help

    Ok I'll give it a shot. It's gonna be tough for me cause I haven't gotten laid in a few weeks cause of work :P


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