No I'm certainly not saying I'm going to give up... its a skill and like all skills take time to develop. I know this. It just seems to be taking me a lot longer to make any progress than I would like.
I mean approaching for the most part has ceased being an issue on the street or any time I see someone attractive unless I over think it and I seem to do okay in that regard. I seem okay at building rapport and comfort but it feels like I'm lacking the right energy or something to create an emotional connection or build attraction.
I know that's not the case in reality and its just I haven't learned yet I just can't seem to find the right place to start, can't seem to make the right connection in my own mind. It's bloody frustrating especially as I think I'd really benefit from a boot camp or something like that but can no way afford it.