So this has been something i've been wondering for the last week.. when you're about to escalate beyond what normally would be LMR--how do you read the IOIs for something sensual romantic sex or rough sex? how do you go about to see if she prefers one over the other? I'm of the mind set to slowly ramp it up--but every girl is different. I'm fully aware of being direct when her panties drop--but what do you guys do? do you forget shes a person and just go caveman when shes bareing it all in front of you? also, i'm sure theres a bunch of guys who'd like to know too--so what advice would you give to others who aren't experienced?