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Thread: Sensual Romantic OR Rough

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    Cool Sensual Romantic OR Rough

    So this has been something i've been wondering for the last week.. when you're about to escalate beyond what normally would be LMR--how do you read the IOIs for something sensual romantic sex or rough sex? how do you go about to see if she prefers one over the other? I'm of the mind set to slowly ramp it up--but every girl is different. I'm fully aware of being direct when her panties drop--but what do you guys do? do you forget shes a person and just go caveman when shes bareing it all in front of you? also, i'm sure theres a bunch of guys who'd like to know too--so what advice would you give to others who aren't experienced?
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    Default Re: Sensual Romantic OR Rough

    This is really interesting... I think it goes back to that dominant/submissive thingy.

    Maybe try pulling her hair lightly? If she responds positively she probably likes it rough.. Oh and try Talking Dirty like how hard you're gonna fark her or something like that and if she likes it, She likes it!

    I'd just do whatever I feel like doing. If I like it romantic today bam, if I like it rough, I go for it. I always cuddle after though so I don't go full on caveman. lol

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    Default Re: Sensual Romantic OR Rough

    yeah--theres a lot of that dominant / submissive stuff--but that doesn't mean foreplay or straight up rough sex. you can still have that in both.

    i've been thinking dry humping might be an interesting move to get beyond the LMR. but even then--thats more of a foreplay thing. still doesn't answer what her preferences are. i really wonder if theres an actual physical technique to knowing what she prefers.
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    Default Re: Sensual Romantic OR Rough

    Its your call. If you feel like being sensual, the be sensual. If you're feeling lustful and want to hit her hard, then hit her hard. You're the man in the relationship. I would expect most girls to be comfortable with the man being in control of how the sex is. Obviously, she may not like it rough, and its thats the case, she'll let you know. But as far as choosing which kind of sex to go for on any given night, its ultimately your decision.

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    Default Re: Sensual Romantic OR Rough

    The main thing to express is CONFIDENCE... and dominance.
    The subject of rough vs. soft & tender/romantic is something that should come along naturally.

    MOST girls like men who are dominant & somewhat aggressive, but not necessarily rough. At least not at first.

    But when a guy is confident enough to take charge & be in control, that's almost always a turn-on for women.

    You can gauge her adventurous side little by little during sex.
    Little slaps/smacks on the ass, firmly (but gently) pulling her hair at the back/base of her neck, a little dirty talk, etc.

    The discovery of her likes / desires /fantasies is a lot of the fun.


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    Default Re: Sensual Romantic OR Rough

    I see this post is old but I must respond. Do what you want! I don't care what she likes ALL women get turned on when the man is dominant. I talk to the woman like the dirty little slut she is when I'm banging her and they LOVE IT! I've even had women thank me for the dirty talk afterwards.

    I also do whatever I want the whole time. If the woman isn't comfortable with it she will let you know. This rarely happens however. It's gotten to the point that allot of women tell me "do whatever you want". This comes from being dominant and basically doing what I want to begin with.

    The last two girls I hooked up with I wanted head first so I told them "take your clothes off and get on your knees". They happily complied. If your extremely confident in the bedroom you can literally do whatever you want and every women will go along with it and REALLY enjoy it!

    I must say this takes time. I haven't truly mastered this until recently. Take baby steps and as your sexual confidence increases you can literally do whatever you want.

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    Default Re: Sensual Romantic OR Rough

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    I see this post is old but I must respond. Do what you want! I don't care what she likes ALL women get turned on when the man is dominant. I talk to the woman like the dirty little slut she is when I'm banging her and they LOVE IT! I've even had women thank me for the dirty talk afterwards.

    I also do whatever I want the whole time. If the woman isn't comfortable with it she will let you know. This rarely happens however. It's gotten to the point that allot of women tell me "do whatever you want". This comes from being dominant and basically doing what I want to begin with.

    The last two girls I hooked up with I wanted head first so I told them "take your clothes off and get on your knees". They happily complied. If your extremely confident in the bedroom you can literally do whatever you want and every women will go along with it and REALLY enjoy it!

    I must say this takes time. I haven't truly mastered this until recently. Take baby steps and as your sexual confidence increases you can literally do whatever you want.
    Can you elaborate on the dirty talk bit? What specific things do you say? This is something I've never gotten the hang of.


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