Apparently I have severe nerve damage from my circumcision. My penis is less sensitive then my finger. Teeth scraping the head does not faze me one bit. This makes things difficult for me.
With the nerves of being with someone new, the pressure to perform, the knowledge that I'm taking too long, plus a condom means the first few sexual encounters with a woman usually doesn't work out to an orgasm for me. And the younger a woman is, the more personally she takes it.
My usual M.O. is to play it off as not important. That the experience was satisfying and enjoyable and there's always next time. Which is the truth for me. I'm a naturally patient person and I do get a lot of satisfaction from foreplay and touching her intimately. Many women get frustrated though. I feel explaining it before hand will kill the mood and my chances of an f-close.
So what the hell am I supposed to do about this?