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    daffyff is offline PUA in Training
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    Default sex the first time is not satisfying

    Apparently I have severe nerve damage from my circumcision. My penis is less sensitive then my finger. Teeth scraping the head does not faze me one bit. This makes things difficult for me.

    With the nerves of being with someone new, the pressure to perform, the knowledge that I'm taking too long, plus a condom means the first few sexual encounters with a woman usually doesn't work out to an orgasm for me. And the younger a woman is, the more personally she takes it.

    My usual M.O. is to play it off as not important. That the experience was satisfying and enjoyable and there's always next time. Which is the truth for me. I'm a naturally patient person and I do get a lot of satisfaction from foreplay and touching her intimately. Many women get frustrated though. I feel explaining it before hand will kill the mood and my chances of an f-close.

    So what the hell am I supposed to do about this?

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    Default Re: sex the first time is not satisfying

    i think you should get a girl you like very much.sometimes a change in body type might help.don't kid yourself if you rub that tip for long you will eventually drip with cum all over the floor.all am saying is learn to enjoy it till you release.take your time don't be fazed.

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    Default Re: sex the first time is not satisfying

    As a guy who Is not circumcised I feel for you ..... I really wish they would stop with this totally unnecessary procedure. Of course performance anxiety effects us all,and the one thing that works for me is to forget about my own orgasm and work on the girl. I enjoy performing oral sex on them and when you get wrapped up with working on them your MOJO will get going too ..... and girls really appreciate a guy who can use his tongue LOL ,,,,, GOOD LUCK

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    daffyff is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: sex the first time is not satisfying

    Quote Originally Posted by drgnsfire12 View Post
    As a guy who Is not circumcised I feel for you ..... I really wish they would stop with this totally unnecessary procedure.
    I agree completely. It actually took me a long time to figure out I even had a problem with it, and only last month of searching for solutions that I figured out I had severe nerve damage.

    Having this forum to be able to talk about this is doing wonders for me so far. It's very motivating to get some real feedback and support rather then guessing at it and being locked in my head. I just finished further research into this topic and apparently there are some solutions to it, albeit odd. Going to add it to my list of planned self improvement

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    Default Re: sex the first time is not satisfying

    I feel for you man. I have the same problem. I can't release until the third or fourth time I've been with a chick. It's a better problem to have then the opposite! That's how I look at it. Not many women have been banged for hours and they truly enjoy it so think like your giving them the best sex of their life because you most likely are.

    The side affect is that the woman can get upset. Some don't get upset while others truly get hurt. I just tell them "Listen, I never finish the first couple times. I only finish when I truly care about the girl. Honestly I almost finished there and I was REALLY surprised. That never happens for me the first time. You were amazing!" Try it out. They usually respond well to that. I then cuddle with them and tell them how beautiful they are and how good they smell/taste etc. They get over it.


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