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    Default Re: Going after a girl much more experienced than me

    I know! I'm really more confused than anything (okay, maybe a little disappointed - she WAS freaking hot). And thank-you! I guess that by deleting her number I'm taking some kind of action, which helps me to feel in control of the situation. And fantastic! I've only just turned 18 and am currently training intensely for competition tennis. As of such, I haven't much experience out in the field other than working on my inner game. I actually went clubbing for my first time only three weeks ago! (Extremely easy game that - even managed a drunken [me not her] hookup with a 25 y/o hottie!) I have a feeling that the next couple of months is going to be a bit of a learning experience!

    Anyways, thanks again for the encouragement Whitedragon.
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    Default Re: Going after a girl much more experienced than me

    Honestly, that seems like an overreaction. There are a number of reasons she may not have responded, and not being interested is only one of them. She could have had a stressful day and as such not been in the mood to think about a date at the moment. She could have had a major life event happen that was distracting her. Or something else. Either way, not responding to your messages for one day is not enough reason to cut off all contact and never speak to her again.

    Now, its possible that she lost interest. But its also possible that she didn't. Given that, I think you made the mistake of reacting emotionally rather than pragmatically. If you just wanted her for sex, than it would have been smarter to wait and see if she reinitiated contact. If she did, great, if she didn't, then you now know for sure. Unfortunently, when she finds that you've deleted her, she will likely not bother sending you anything, even if the reason she didn't respond was not because of you.

    But if she *was* just a tease, then i'm sorry. However, give girls more than one opportunity in the future.

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    Default Re: Going after a girl much more experienced than me

    Actually, she messaged me about it a week later. She ended up sending out three boots calls - all of which I actually had important things to be doing... she thought I had lost interest, and then stopped texting me. I seriously had THE worst luck with this one... ever. -.-

    Oh and BTW - yeah, I was overreacting.
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    Default Re: Going after a girl much more experienced than me

    You can stillget her if you want. Just play it cool and treat her like a friend whom you can do just about anything with. Shes obviously just looking to have fun so go with it. It foesnt hurt to intiate first. If you do bring up the virginity thing when your isolated it may work in your favor.
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Going after a girl much more experienced than me

    Oh no no! hahaha - She got offended when I seemingly lost interest. She's one of those girls who are 'too good' for everyone else. When she thought I'd rejected her, she didn't take to it kindly...

    Doesn't matter mate. I'm on to bigger and better things
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