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    Default HB10 from the Bar returns the favor and raises the bar

    So I been talking about this HB10 from the Bar for a little while now. I met her last Friday and today she finally texted me (thanks T-Mal). Based on T-mals advice I sent her another text today only one this time. She wrote me about 5-6 texts that was so long it was a freaking wall. As I mentioned....


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    I have been gradually getting more sexual for a number of reasons I don't have time to go over now. But basically I told her off the bat I would love to hookup with her and wanted some hot action. She has been ignoring all my texts but I called her the other day and we had a kinky phone call as I said. This happened largely because I set the sexual frame. I sent her 1 text this morning with no intention of anything after.

    A couple of hours later I was literally sweating bricks. Man as I was writing this I was getting hit on and had to make her hit the road. Anyway I was sweating bricks because I thought it was bad but it was actually good. She went super far. I mean far. She said she would brave sub-zero temperatures to crawl inside me and would wait a thousand years in muck to ravage me like a wild craven woman. She said she couldn't let me go and sent me the creepiest message ever! I couldn't believe it so I told her I would not rest until I saw her eyes filled with lust. I hope it works out but wow! I have never gotten this kind of validation. I am really going to try to get with her tomorrow. Any advice on how to escalate would be great. I have to call her tomorrow.
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    Default Re: HB10 from the Bar returns the favor and raises the bar

    That is good to hear. Your pursuit is going well to the point that now she in expressing interest and pursuing you.

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    Default Re: HB10 from the Bar returns the favor and raises the bar

    I don't want to take away from anything you did, but honestly man, you're providing her with too much validation. By playing into this kinky Mindset and going along with it, your letting her control the interaction. In this situation, the ideal would have been to reframe instead of playing into her frame.

    You said she sent you the "creepiest message ever"? Well guess what? If you had sent that, at best she would have called you a creep, at worst she would have cut the interaction. In that situation, I would have turned it on her and called her a creep. Remember, you want to keep control of the frame.

    Another reason that you don't want to keep playing into this frame is that you're not playing the Push-Pull/tension game right. Check out my post on tension http://www.puaforums.com/how-flirt/2...on-status.html
    "It's only after we've lost everything that we're free to do anything."

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    Default Re: HB10 from the Bar returns the favor and raises the bar

    TheDuke may have some good points, but I think it's always difficult to gauge where your interaction is truly going from a forum post on here.

    One of my buddies, who is a natural (although admittingly most of the girls he's hoked up with have been 7s and 8s), is somewhere over 200 girls he's laid. I've literally seen him text girls who he knew were attracted and say "wanna f**k?" Never in a million years thought a single girl would reply to him. Shockingly they have, on many occasions.

    Taking kind of TheDuke's insight mixed with a little of the above, I'd say be direct with what you want, as you have. Push for it, but in a way that says I don't really care if it happens or not. Most definitely do not become her sexting buddy. If you are calling her, it sounds like you may be ahead of this one already. Call her in the middle of the day, banter with her for a minute, and then get a date set up for that evening. A drink, a movie at your place, a ride on the outskirts of town. Just do something that is gonna make it seem like your hanging out, but can easily shift into something sexual.

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    Default Re: HB10 from the Bar returns the favor and raises the bar

    If you guys able to exchange such hot messages in phone or email...

    I will suggest you bang her into wall or throw her out into your bed once she's inside your place.

    From there, kiss her passionately, and going as far as you can.

    Dirty talk to her such as you taste so good, you smell so good, you are my lusty girl, I like that you are so wet for me...

    SHe will yours to take...


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