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Thread: Had 2 dates thus far. Would like to get date #3, 4, 5, etc.

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    Default Had 2 dates thus far. Would like to get date #3, 4, 5, etc.

    26 year old guy here. I've met many girls/women in the last five years or so, but I gotta admit I have not been all that successful at keeping them interested in me for a long time.

    I've gone on two dates with this beautiful girl so far. First date was about 10 days ago, second date last night. We went to a nice, quiet bar for our first date, and I think it went pretty well. Brief kiss at the end of the night. We started flirting through texts (against Corey Wayne's advice) after that. Some days I would text first, and some days she would text me first. For our second date, we did Paint Nite because both she and I have a little bit of artistic bent. I had fun, she said she loved it. Hand holding throughout the night and kissing at the end of the night. I texted her this afternoon to kinda get the momentum going again, but I don't think I was as funny as usual.

    I really want to get to know this girl better, so I want to land 3rd, 4th, and 5th dates. I have been flirting with her a lot, so I wonder if it's time for me to take a step back until she starts chasing me again. I am not all that great at seducing chicks, so I would like some input from those who are successful!

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    Default Re: Had 2 dates thus far. Would like to get date #3, 4, 5, etc.

    Not to sure what your worried about here? From the sound of your post you've been doing just fine. Keep your frame, your a confident, fun, accessible, alpha male who she genuinely enjoys spending time with. That's it.

    Comfort can be a bit tricky. When your relationship enters comfort, you get just that, comfortable. And your whole life you've been comfortable doing things that would label you as an AFC. Naturally, your going to want to bend back towards that. Don't be afraid to get comfortable with her, just do it with the attributes listed above. It definitely can get exhausting, but ultimately the more you reconstruct your brain to operate under these conditions, the easier and more natural it will become to do so. Your doing fine man, don't sweat it!
    You don't need her

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    Default Re: Had 2 dates thus far. Would like to get date #3, 4, 5, etc.

    2nd date is 10 days after 1st date?!

    It's too long, bro.

    Plus, you should close the deal at 2nd date, she expect and wish you to close the deal.

    No much girls will kiss a man for the sake of kiss (except party girls), and hold hand is for couple.

    You had keep her waited too long, ask her out at 3rd date to cook dinner at your place ASAP, and give her a good night.

    Or she might think you don't actually like her so much, and give up on you.

    Close the night as she wishes.


    Hope this help,
    Naughty Napoleon


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