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    Default What to do differently if you just want FWB?

    If I'm interested in a girl as a FWB but not as relationship material, how should I act in order to acheive that? Are there things you should do differently in the attraction process? Should I straight-up tell her that I'm not looking for a relationship? If so, when? Should I go for more rapport than usual, or less? Any details on how this works are appreciated - its not a concept I'm very familiar with.

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    Default Re: What to do differently if you just want FWB?

    This is a hard one. I've had many FWB and only one worked out for me. The other ones the girls fell head over heals and wanted a relationship, then hated me when they found out I was seeing other women.

    There seems to be a certain amount of times you can have sex with a girl before she becomes emotionally attached. I have found this number to be somewhere around 5. If I keep it to 2-4 times and end it they are totally fine. Over 5 and they get attached. I really think it all depends on the girl too. If she only see's you as a sex partner and nothing more you are good too go. The problem is if you REALLY like her as a friend and hang out with her more, plus have sex with her allot, she will view you as more.

    I've always been honest with these girls constantly telling them we are just friends. They didn't believe it. I have a FWB now that I'm even MORE honest with. I tell her I'm banging other women. I tell her if I think the waitress at the restaurant has a nice butt. I NEVER pay for anything. I tell her if I want to bang her roommates. I tell her if I was hanging out with another woman the night before. I think she knows I'm being honest but at the same time thinks I'm joking around. I'm really not.

    This is the problem with FWB. It can work out just fine but many times someone gets attached and in my experience it's always the woman.

    I would say that you shouldn't do anything boyfriend/girlfriend ish and be as honest as possible. If you are completely honest it's hard for her to stay mad at you forever if she gets attached.

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    Default Re: What to do differently if you just want FWB?

    There is no right or wrong way to do this. It's different with most every woman. Some girls you are simply not going to be able to smang and go out and do what you want. They don't let you have your cake and eat it too. On the other hand, there are some woman who are only looking to hook up. These are the ones it's going to be easier with.

    I'd probably say most girls fall somewhere in between. They are "maybe" girls. They just need a push in the right direction. Again, all woman are different and that push needs to be calibrated.

    That being said, as posted above, don't treat her like she is your girlfriend. This doesn't necessarily mean that you can't go hang out with her one on one for a day. But she should be your "friend." You don't hold hands with your friends, you don't worry how close you are standing to your friends, you don't buy your friends lunch or dinner. You simply treat her like she's one of your buddies. Go home afterwards and then get sexual with her. Tell her your horny and you want to f***. Don't get too romantic, just start taking yours and her clothes off and lead her into the bedroom.

    My last FWB I'd literally only hit up to go over to her place and smang. She went through 3 different BFs in the course of our banging sessions (though I never had sex with her while she was dating someone, not my style). Sometimes it would be a month before I would see her. She even let me bang 2 of her friends, no repercussions. But it literally was all set up from the idea that that was all we were going to do together. She brought up the dating thing, and I just said I didn't want to. End of story. We agreed to be friends, and fark.

    Just go at it with this girl, if she brings it up, just tell her you don't want to date anyone right now. More importantly, don't ever get jealous or ask her if she is seeing anyone else; she then won't do the same for you.
    You don't need her

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    Default Re: What to do differently if you just want FWB?

    Hi Carter21,

    Tha's actually should not be any difference between seduce a gf or a fwb into bed at first time. They are all women!

    The difference is what you do after first sex, or in other words, how do you plan for that relationship to be happen to a bf-gf or just fwb.

    I recommend you to check out Sex Beast The Awaken by Diophantus Grey.

    Grey had laid out in details of how to plan a blissful, healhy, strong relationship, whether for gf or for fwb.

    I had followed his advice for many of my girls and it works awesome for me.

    Check that out!


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