So I met this girl on Tindr the other week and we’ve been gradually talking after we found out with had some commonalities. In addition to the fact that I was able to sustain the conversation. When we start talking about what brought us to Tindr and what she is looking for, she says she is mainly interested in meeting people for a friend’s w/benefits situation.
This made me kind of suspicious as at this point as I thought she might have been a fake or a guy pretending to a girl. Since she was pretty good looking (and came across both overtly and otherwise as looking for fun) but everything I verified on her checked out ex. She had a Facebook with pictures/profile that matched up. Anything else I could find out about her (sounds stalkerish I know but you can never be too careful imo) was the same case. Plus she called me one time when she was pretty drunk one weekend and talked dirty to me for over an hour lol. So I now know she’s def a real woman.
We have even sexted as she has sent dirty pics to me and vice versa/ talked dirty via text. She also seems to like what she’s seen so far of me. However, she has been very hesitant to just to meet up for coffee/in person or even talk on the phone.
I was wondering why that is. She said she is afraid of meeting actual people from the internet (which might be the case and given my trust by verify attitude the same with me too). Does she just need to get more conformable with me by texting me then moving forward with that? Is she just using this as a way to get her own rocks off in which she will eventually back out without ever meeting up? Or alternatively is just taking this one step at a time?
I have been trying to figure things out as I feel like I am on the track to an F-close but I'v been disappointed numerous times before.
Thank you in advance for you advice,