Re: Rejection Is In Your Head - ALWAYS Go For It!
True dat. Apparently I am more afraid of success than I am failure or rejection. I always know how to handle rejection- walk away, get mad, or give up. Doesn't matter. But when I get a chick trying to hookup with me I completely miss the buck. Or when I have the chance to close and low ball it to totally kill my chances. So you could say the worst thing is learning to handle success rather than failure. Since once you start getting somewhere you start to develop an attachment and can get hurt more than a chick you don't know.
I don't fear rejection I have learned how to brush it off without any pain. The worst rejection though is a girl that accepted you for a while and then dropped you for seeing something you did to screw it up that's the kinda success I fear since I hold myself back from being successful since I don't want to take that leap. But I am learning how to deal guessing with success and get beyond even that barrier to good Inner Game.
When you let go of your feelings you can really then embrace your surroundings
Love is a game that's why I don't worry about it anymore. When you let go of your feelings you find your meaning.