There's one simple way to make yourself stand out in bed over every other guy no matter how long you can last. The key is communication.
I really enjoy talking dirty to a girl and I've been doing it for a few years now. I've had women in their late thirties compliment me on this and tell me that no other guy EVER does it. They truly enjoy it and it helps them get off.
Recently I've taken communication in bed a step further. Instead of JUST talking dirty to her I will also compliment her smell, taste, and how good she feels/looks. I'll even have conversations with the girl WHILE we are doing it. Like straight up regular conversations! It's gotten to the point where we will talk about random things and even laugh hysterically while having sex.
Women love to talk and when you communicate with them WHILE you have sex with them they become very attached and feel like you two are connecting on the deepest possible level. It also helps them orgasm because they REALLY get lost in the moment and just let it happen instead of thinking about having a orgasm.
Most women can't have an orgasm while only having vaginal sex so if you can get her there you are her hero. Communication helps allot but also make sure to rub her clit whenever you can while fornicating with her. If you can't physically do this because of the position you're in tell her to do it herself. Tell her to tell you what she likes and dislikes. Some women like things that others do not. Keep the lines of communication open and encourage her to tell you what gets her off.
They key during all of this is eye contact. Whenever you can make eye contact with her during sex do it! Look intensely into her eyes the whole time! Only look away from her eyes when you have too. This makes the connection even better.
I like to give them a devilish grin while making intense eye contact during sex. I discovered something amazing about this...All I have to do to get her horny when we AREN'T in bed is give her that same grin with intense eye contact! It's a psychological conditioning thing that I just stumbled upon. When you do it correctly all you have to do to get your girlfriend horny is to look her deep in the eyes and grin. I do this naturally so the women I've slept with since I started doing this are horny the entire time I'm around them. They are ready whenever I feel like I'M ready. You know you did it right if they try and cover your eyes with their hand when you are in a public place and you give them the "look". Every girl I've done this too tries to cover my eyes with their hand, at certain times, and says "Noooo" or "Don't" in a playful way.
I just recently reconnected with an ex that I haven't seen in three years. I was visiting a part of the country where she lives so I called her. She drove 8 hours to see me. We banged for 3 straight days and she couldn't BELIEVE how much better I was in bed now compared to when we were together. The only difference in my performance is the fact that I communicate now. She enjoyed herself so much that she has been sexting me everyday since I left. That was 10 days ago! She's also planing on visiting me in a month for round two and she already told me that I can do whatever I please to her.
Give her the best sex of her life and you will reap the rewards! Cheers!