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    Default Not getting a kiss close yet

    Hi Guys
    Have been gaming this girl for a week or so. Gone out with her 3 times (not really as a formal date or anything). Lots of drinks, Kino, lots of clear intentions and interest from her too. Lots of sexual talk. She lets me hold her hands, get close to her, kiss her cheek and neck. But yesterday I tried to kiss her on the lips and she did not let me. I was persistent and kept kinoing here. She could not go home late in the night and I told her she could crash on my couch to which she agreed to. I tried to kiss once again before reaching my place but she did not let me. She kept saying something like : it has to happen just like that or things like that meaning she wasn't yet comfortable. So we talked for sometime, flirted more, and then I just let her go to bed (kinda freezed her out and did not kiss her good night on the cheek or anything).
    Any tips how to kiss and maybe F close a girl like that. She likes me its obvious but she is taking her time. I feel like not wanting to waste my precious time on her if she is just playing me since I have two other chicks on the line.
    Please some tips !

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    Default Re: Not getting a kiss close yet

    It sounds like attraction is there, at least somewhat... but you're lacking a bit in seduction. (Especially for the f-close.)

    Kissing really shouldn't be that difficult though. So, you should exude more confidence & start making statements of intent: "I'm trying sooooooooo hard NOT to kiss you right now, but you're just too darned cute & you're making it tough." *wink/smile

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    Default Re: Not getting a kiss close yet

    Hi T
    Thanks for that.
    Since then I have been out with her once and we had a good time drinking and the usual flirting, sexual talk, ex's and so on ! I gave her a SOI here and there and she played along well with all that. But again as I tried to kiss close her, she denied it. At one point she even said, I like you and I want to be around you. But then she stopped from saying anything more. I felt like I was being friend zoned. So I stopped all approach and played it casual as if it did not matter.
    Since then I have been a little cold, not going out or asking her to join me to concerts/dance/ other things I usually do. At a party yesterday, she texted me to join in as "it was boring without me" there (in her words)- to which i replied I am not her personal entertainer in a casual friendly way. I think she keeps giving mixed signals.

    She works in the same building as me and we usually hang around for lunch as a group with other people. If I flirt with her at times, she touches me and gives ioi's (punching, touching, rapport, standing close to me and so on).
    Freezing Her Out completely is not really an option as I work in the same building but what else can I do (other than simple moving along which I can do anytime anyways).

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    Default Re: Not getting a kiss close yet

    Hi guys. C'mon, I need to hear some tips here.
    Thanks

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    Default Re: Not getting a kiss close yet

    Keep flirting... Tease/banter with her.

    "Hey, you're standing awfully close... You're in my space. What's the matter with you? Are you feeling scared by something & hoping I'll protect you? *wink/smile

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    Default Re: Not getting a kiss close yet

    Flirt by making her seem like the aggressor........ That will make her less likely to have walls up. Dont push. Pull and let her push
    Every moment counts, get out of your head and enjoy it.

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    Default Re: Not getting a kiss close yet

    Firstly Girls like this can seem difficult at times, however, most of the time you just have to ignore them for a while(2-3 weeks), then when you reconnect they're EASY to get along with. Secondly,I hope your not financing these dates 100% of the time. If so she might just be in it for the free ride bro. Bring a gentleman only goes so far. You have neither time nor money to waste. Even if you think you do, you dont and you shouldn't do either consistently without getting the results you want.. Next time she invite you somewhere you should tell her your out with someone else and you'll call her later. When she thinks that ship is about to sail she'll hop on. F- The friend zone then F-her.
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    Default Re: Not getting a kiss close yet

    Hi Guys. Thanks lot for ht tips. I am giving her the slight cold treatment and I can see she feels it too. I dont go completely cold, maybe reply once or so to her messages or make a joke or tease/flirt with her every now and then. Toady she tried to ignore me too after I ignored her the entire group lunch session except a couple of tease remarks.
    Tomorrow actually she has a running event she is preparing for and told me lots about before. Now I am in a dilemma if I should go to the run and support her ...OR...Just tell her good luck via text on in person....OR just ignore completely. I feel it might be a making/breaking event in some ways and me going totally cold at a time like this might go down real bad !
    Any tips ? (would really appreciate them) !

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    Default Re: Not getting a kiss close yet

    First of all it really looks like she's checking how serious you are. She is trying to see if you are staying with her after rejections. She will probably only let you kiss her if she feels it more than one night. Up to you if thats what you want.

    I would go to the run...you won't ever kiss her if your never there

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    Default Re: Not getting a kiss close yet

    Thanks guys for the response. I didn't go for the run exactly but I called her and also met her after it. She seemed very happy to see I was supporting her.
    As suggested before, I still flirt with her and talk every now and then BUT I do not make any dates or one-on-one meetings (as we did before; going for drinks) or go to social events with her.
    It seems to be working as for the last two days; she keeps finding reasons to contact me on text and talk to me one on one (in the same building) flirting in general. She came by and told me she was going to check a dance place (i think she meant to tell me she was going and maybe see if i would jump in and join). I did not. I just told her to go ahead and enjoy it as I was busy!

    Now hers the catch. How long do I play this ? I don't want her to think I am not interested at all (I do flirt with her). Do I wait for her to ask me out on a date/night out OR I join her the next times she mentions an event ?

    Still learning this but I am getting better. So would really appreciate the tips ! Cheers guys


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