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Thread: I need some advice on a push and pull

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    Default I need some advice on a push and pull

    Okay guys. here is my problem. I work with this girl who i have some interest in. she asked if i wanted to get a beer one day after work. had a blast. connected with her on a whole new level. at work she always comes around me and makes small talk. next i invite her to go get a beer. we start kissing and so there is definitely some connection now. so here is my problem. obviously there is connection and she has some interest in me. i don't text her. when i see her at work i tend to just keep it professional and not be "thirsty" . i feel like i have her on the hook. i just want to real her in more without coming off desperate or not interested. what should i do ?

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    Default Re: I need some advice on a push and pull

    Hey - sounds cool. I would alternate flirting with her, Kino and teasing her at work with periods of flat out ignoring her and flirting with other girls. I'm just a newbie so let others chime in.

    One thing I am learning the things you are most uncomfortable doing are the things you should be doing the most.

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    Default Re: I need some advice on a push and pull

    Zoomer: thanks for your advice. i definitely do find that going out your comfort zone can work out to your benefit. i playfully talk to this other girl who seems like a little bit of competition for the girl i went out to the bar with. i asked her to lunch. so right now my intentions aren't to make her jealous. im just showing her that i have other options

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    Default Re: I need some advice on a push and pull

    Yeah you should be doing and if you can mess around with the other girl to though it's atvwork so be careful work relationships are tricky and dangerous !!! you don't get involved with one person you get involved with many spin them plates !!!
    You have to have sex with this 1st chick girl get going on that you should really make that a priority you already made out with get Inside her as fast as possible it's sets the course of the whole relationship!!! Whisper shit you want to do to her in her ear when she's at work --- then ignore her and flirt with other girls.

    I only do online dating I work 12 hours a day 6 days a week - I would date a girl and see her online after we had sex and it would make me crazy-- but now I just keep going online ---- letting them see me online ---- it doesn't bother me I date as many women as I'm able to comfortably date and if I find someone I really dig I wait for her to make the first talk of anything serious or committed I believe that you have to wait for the chick to make the first move when it comes to commitment I don't think if a guy does it first it works. Keep me posted on this chick.

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    Default Re: I need some advice on a push and pull

    So update on the two girls. the first girl that i was interested in. is either "playing hard to get" or she is generally not interested... im not sure. the second girl kind of comes off as an attention seeker.. i'm not sure on how i feel about it..

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    Default Re: I need some advice on a push and pull

    So the first one is the one you were kissing right? Why is she playing hard to get now?

    If the girl is an attention seeker be sure you're the guy with the attention and don't give any attention to her.

    As for your initial question work time is work time, don't shit were you eat. Just escalate with her while kissing. Start to kiss heavily slowly but surely then pull her hair back and bite her neck, kiss again then start guiding her hand towards your dick, she'll do the rest.

    Society conditions us to be pussies don't be a pussy be a man and go after what you want.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: I need some advice on a push and pull

    @Zoomer I'll answer you when I can, I haven't forgotten. I just haven't got the time to even think about your situation.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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