Okay guys. here is my problem. I work with this girl who i have some interest in. she asked if i wanted to get a beer one day after work. had a blast. connected with her on a whole new level. at work she always comes around me and makes small talk. next i invite her to go get a beer. we start kissing and so there is definitely some connection now. so here is my problem. obviously there is connection and she has some interest in me. i don't text her. when i see her at work i tend to just keep it professional and not be "thirsty" . i feel like i have her on the hook. i just want to real her in more without coming off desperate or not interested. what should i do ?