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    Default Advice Picking Up Girl From Work

    Ok, so I have kind of a unique situation here, not the pick up part but life circumstances that seem like barriers. So theres this new server at the restaurant I work at that I think is cute as shit with a nice ass and as far as I know shes not taken (pretty much every hot girl at work is taken or I deem too young because they'll be in high school still next year and I'm going to start college) and I decided I want to pursue her. Well thats all great, so I thought to myself how do I normally pick up girls? I give off a good body language and smile with eye contact with her every time I pass as step one. I sense she is attracted to me because whenever something happens like we almost walk into each other or when were putting dishes where they belong and ours clink (were always in a rush) she gives off a giggle and this smile that the other females I talk to simply as coworkers (and are taken) don't. Also there was one time where I came and helped her clean a table and she kind of said "thank" without pronouncing the s like I do sometimes when I can't think of something to say to customers (sometimes I think too hard because I get bigger tips the more outgoing I seem) and get a flare of nervousness and she like put her head down and walked away. Next I talk to them and have small talk and make them laugh and gear a conversation towards going somewhere together and getting their number.

    Well here is where I have my "unique" problem. I don't have a car I can drive until I get it fixed (which is an expensive fix and I still owe money on the car) because couple months ago I was shot when somebody tried to rob me and I tried to drive off but swerved into a pole when I got shot (and thank God I am pretty much fully recovered). I'm pretty sure she doesn't know about it and I don't want to tell her thats why I can't drive cause I was doing something shady to make fast money that put me in the position I was in (if I were to tell her it'd be if we were in a serious relationship). This part wouldn't be so bad except I still live with my parents because I'm about to graduate high school so I feel like it puts my valuability down (no drive-able car, lives with parents = bum).

    So I figure I have two options, go for it anyway and start actually gaming, or stick with body language but only talk to her when needed for work (that way I don't risk being friend zoned) and wait until I fix my car and then actually start a conversation with her (but this could be awhile and I fear that 'initial attraction' will fade and it'll be too late). It's really bugging me guys, I feel I'm in quite the pickle right now so I need to hear some outside advice. Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: Advice Picking Up Girl From Work

    So your options are to
    1) stall and let the attraction expire or
    2) Move on with the game and get some progress done.

    Don't be afraid of seeming like a bum when you're still in high school, it's a given that you're living with parents.
    If you're ok with telling the internet about your getting shot, I really hope it would be easier telling a real person this, heck i'd use it as a story during comfort building. No need to include details about your source of fast money.

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    Default Re: Advice Picking Up Girl From Work

    I have a friend who was shot at a party last summer and believe me, he uses it to his advantage all the time. With him, he was just in the wrong place at the wrong time, but it should still be the same principle. SirisBFF put it pretty straight-forward: you can either go for it or let whatever you've got already die out. If you were with the parents, say, after college, it'd be a different story with the whole bum thing, but you aren't even at college yet so I wouldn't worry at all. As for the rest of the story, if you were to ask her out per-say and she asked if you had a car, then you could give the story just like how you told us. Now, the fact that you're co-workers however, puts you in an interesting predicament, and I would suggest when asking her out and building up to the "big moment," test the waters a bit, because you don't want to go in too fast and make it awkward for yourself later at work.

    The worst thing you can do though is not try at all. Like I said, test the water a bit more and go for it if things look promising. I'm currently in a similar situation as yourself, which I had going REALLY well up until the end of my date last night actually, when I backed out last second. Don't do what I did, but know that it is possible for this to work for you.

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    Default Re: Advice Picking Up Girl From Work

    Dude your still in high school! I'll share a tip with you...women don't give two sh!ts if you have a car, money, or you live with your parents. They care about how you make them feel.

    I lived with my dad during the summer when I was in college and I brought girls home all the time. Hell I brought girls home last year when I was 27. They don't care! It's only an issue if you believe it is.

    Make a move already! If you want to do something and she has a car have her pick you up. Tell her "My cars in the shop right now". If she asks you what happened tell her you hit a pole. That's all you need to say.

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    Default Re: Advice Picking Up Girl From Work

    From past experiences I have found that waiting is the wrong choice.You wait and somebody comes and gets her.My point just be brave and go for it!
    Her flaws are the very things that make her beautiful.

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    Default Re: Advice Picking Up Girl From Work

    Quote Originally Posted by DirectIsBest View Post
    Dude your still in high school! I'll share a tip with you...women don't give two sh!ts if you have a car, money, or you live with your parents. They care about how you make them feel.

    I lived with my dad during the summer when I was in college and I brought girls home all the time. Hell I brought girls home last year when I was 27. They don't care! It's only an issue if you believe it is.

    Make a move already! If you want to do something and she has a car have her pick you up. Tell her "My cars in the shop right now". If she asks you what happened tell her you hit a pole. That's all you need to say.
    Quote Originally Posted by SHAD0WBLADE95 View Post
    I have a friend who was shot at a party last summer and believe me, he uses it to his advantage all the time. With him, he was just in the wrong place at the wrong time, but it should still be the same principle. SirisBFF put it pretty straight-forward: you can either go for it or let whatever you've got already die out. If you were with the parents, say, after college, it'd be a different story with the whole bum thing, but you aren't even at college yet so I wouldn't worry at all. As for the rest of the story, if you were to ask her out per-say and she asked if you had a car, then you could give the story just like how you told us. Now, the fact that you're co-workers however, puts you in an interesting predicament, and I would suggest when asking her out and building up to the "big moment," test the waters a bit, because you don't want to go in too fast and make it awkward for yourself later at work.

    The worst thing you can do though is not try at all. Like I said, test the water a bit more and go for it if things look promising. I'm currently in a similar situation as yourself, which I had going REALLY well up until the end of my date last night actually, when I backed out last second. Don't do what I did, but know that it is possible for this to work for you.
    YE WHAT THIS GUYS SAID !!!! ^

    Make A Move.. who cares about work awkwardness
    probably the best thing is invite her and other coworkers to a party that your going to, if you dont want to get rejected
    and work on her their. but Just keep flirting with her all day when you see her at work
    Ye just say your car is down .. and it is if that comes up


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