This has happened 3 times in a row now !
I meet girl, I make her laugh, I flirt a lot with her, chatting, sexual escalation (in chat), she gives IOIs and SOIs as well. I get her number ; in all last three cases she even proposes to go out and get a drink sometime.
I get her out for a casual drink; I keep The Vibe easy going (role play as husband and wife,divorce etc.)
But I cant even kiss close. I am bad at the meeting in person and escalating I think.
I tease her a lot (sometimes I think too much), but I am not sure what else to add on. The comfort building (where u ask her insightful question)s to get her to open up seems too much like an interview.
I did that still at the last girl I went out with for a drink. Got to know what she wanted to go long term and her perfect place to be and so on. I did qualify her as well. All said, I was not able to, either create comfort or create sexual vibe with conversation. I know body language is crucial but I am stuck for topics to speak of especially before making a kiss close or getting her to be very open and comfortable around me. Should I be giving more compliments (I hold back on them really unless she really deserves them). I also give SOIs (especially in role play). Like the last girl, I made her agree I gave her fantastic orgasms (as a married couple). Its a bit confusing what I am doing wrong.
It really is a sticking point as girl after girl (especially when the girls where the ones chasing me in the first place), I manage to fuck up. I am getting frustrated as to what I am doing wrong.
I would really love some feedback here.