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    Default Keeping the attraction when she is overseas

    Hi Guys

    I have been gaming this girl for a month now and we get along a lot.
    Whatsapp messaging everyday nearly. Teasing and sexualising texts and so on.

    We both have hectic work schedules so a date like meeting did not work out in the last couple of weeks (the last time we arranged to meet, she was actually working till midnight and she was stressed out so I did not push it). But since we both go to the same dance lessons I managed to kiss close her last week (10 days ago).
    I haven't seen her since then as she went off on a trip to the USA to Vegas with her girlfriend.

    She has been there now for 7 days and we kept in touch with about 5 or so texts till 3 days ago. I tease her on the last one that I sent (roleplay as husband wife and that she can marry a old rich guy in vegas so when he dies we get his money bla bla bla)

    To that she replied a very short (going for a party now. chat to u soon. greetings from Vegas). Since then there has been silence.

    On facebook she has put pictures ( i dont usually like them and I have liked none or commented on any of them yet). She is HB9 and the pictures have several likes/comments form guys who chase her.

    She is back in 5 days and in 8 days its her birthday party she has invited me to (first at her place and then to the club) There is bound to be guys there (orbiters and other competition).

    I am not sure if I should contact her and keep the text conversation going when she is there as she herself made no reply in last 3 days (although she was the last to reply but as said before it was very short).

    I AM FEELING IT IS KILLING THE ATTRACTION THAT TOOK ME A WHILE TO CREATE AND GET TO THE KISS CLOSE.


    TIPS PLEASE ! THANKS GUYS !

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    Default Re: Keeping the attraction when she is overseas

    I would wait until after she comes back and text her "Welcome back, can't wait for your party, it's going to be an awesome night" ...... then go to the party and do your thing ..... lets not be needy by being response dependent and counting how many times she's texts you while she is away on trip, let's not be annoying by endlessly texting her wile she is on vacation. If she wants to, she'll text you, but let's remember she will be busy doing things especially in Vegas . In the end it doesn't matter because you will be spending time with her soon, and then you can build on the attraction in person
    "The purpose of our lives is to be happy" - his Holiness the Dalai Llama of Tibet

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    Default Re: Keeping the attraction when she is overseas

    I agree with drgnsfire12. In general, absence makes the heart grow fonder. I'd wait it out if I were you and just a side note, if you're usually the first person to text her, she will be expecting you to initiate a text conversation rather than the other way around

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    Default Re: Keeping the attraction when she is overseas

    @ScarletV I love it when girls, if you really are one, join the forums. I feel that guys believe in the efficiency of the tactics and routines more if a girl explains them or openly admits that they would work on her. Women are natural PUA their input is always important and very respected. That being said the longest a girl had kept active was one month, let's see if you can break that record
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    Default Re: Keeping the attraction when she is overseas

    well I'm up for the one month challenge, but I have to disagree about women being natural pua. I know a lot of girls who need some serious help. Btw have there been a lot of guys posing as females on here? I'm just asking because you sounded a little doubtful

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    Default Re: Keeping the attraction when she is overseas

    Thanks guys. Usually it is her who initiates a conversation but sometimes I do it too.

    Have been taking it slow now, only one message in the last 5 days. Will see her on the weekend for her birthday party.

    QUESTION:

    1. I was suggested by a friend to take some small gift for her since it is her BD. What do you guys think of giving presents this early ? I usually hold off till we are seeing each other (naked that is ). I might by her a drink and ask her out then.


    2. There will be few other guys I know who hit on her (orbiters and so) at the party. In general how do you deal with them. Usually what worked for me (the first time we were out togather there was this dude hitting on her too much even pushing me away as I talked to her) is to take it easy and not be aggressive.

    Now that we have kissed do u think she expects me to get all worked up and guard her when other guys will hit on her on the weekend party ?

    Thanks !

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    Quote Originally Posted by ScarletV View Post
    well I'm up for the one month challenge, but I have to disagree about women being natural pua. I know a lot of girls who need some serious help. Btw have there been a lot of guys posing as females on here? I'm just asking because you sounded a little doubtful
    You're definitely a girl :

    -You couldn't resist the challenge
    -You immediately started speculating about me ( saying I'm doubtful)

    To answer your question, yeah I've seen it once or twice don't know why they do it, maybe they feel strong, but we can weed them out quickly.

    I remember the last time a girl was on here she interviewed me and Cody. She was a psychology student and wanted to write a paper about attraction and stuff like that, she included a section about the people who study the art and their point of views.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Quote Originally Posted by rom9 View Post
    Thanks guys. Usually it is her who initiates a conversation but sometimes I do it too.

    Have been taking it slow now, only one message in the last 5 days. Will see her on the weekend for her birthday party.

    QUESTION:

    1. I was suggested by a friend to take some small gift for her since it is her BD. What do you guys think of giving presents this early ? I usually hold off till we are seeing each other (naked that is ). I might by her a drink and ask her out then.


    2. There will be few other guys I know who hit on her (orbiters and so) at the party. In general how do you deal with them. Usually what worked for me (the first time we were out togather there was this dude hitting on her too much even pushing me away as I talked to her) is to take it easy and not be aggressive.

    Now that we have kissed do u think she expects me to get all worked up and guard her when other guys will hit on her on the weekend party ?

    Thanks !
    1. Would you buy her a gift if she were a guy ? that's your answer

    2.Unless she asks you to do something about it you don't. You stay cool and leave if she gets into the conversation with the guy keep your high value !!
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    Default Re: Keeping the attraction when she is overseas

    Thanks dude !

    Last update was: I texted her welcome back and that the pary will be a blast bla bla.. made some inside jokes and a sexualising joke on me feeding her champagne that was inline with the internal joke. she agreed to it and it was going well.
    But last message when she said she was feeling tired, I said get some water, deep breaths and dream of me with the champagne in hand (nothing that I have not done before)

    Suddenly, she went all one line on it..not even an answer just an emoticon of thumb and a drink. Party is tomorrow. I feel I need to go back on attraction as I think there is another dude involved somewhere. What do u think ?

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    Default Re: Keeping the attraction when she is overseas

    DUDE ! NO ! You're getting inside your head, don't go back to attraction I feel now is the time for comfort and seduction!
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