Hey guys, just getting back into the field! I will try and sum this up as much as I can.
my buddy's wife started working at this place and then she called me up and told me to come by to meet this girl so I did and I gave her my number, she never called or texted me. I think maybe a month and a bit went by and now it's their wedding day. She's a bridesmaid and I was a groomsmen. After the ceremony while getting pictures done the bride comes upto me and says I need to talk to her more because she is really into me, then I found out she lost my number. So I talked to her more, flirted a lot more. Then the dancing started and the bride once again came and told me to go ask her to dance (we had danced before but now it was a slow song) so I did and it was great, then another slow song and this time the bride told me to kiss her I told the bride to chill I got this haha and yeah we made out on the dance floor. We exchanged numbers and had a first date the following Wednesday.
the date went great, she had an amazing time then when I tried for a second date she told me that she didn't think it would work as she didn't want to ruin the friendship the 4 of us had and that she wasn't looking for a solid relationship unless she was swept off her feet. DONT WORRY I pulled her back in and by the end of the night I got some nice pictures and now we are casually dating aka fwb. I do like her and I would like there to be more in the future but right now I am fine with what we are doing.
I want to sweep her off her feet though because she has had some real crappy relationships and I want to be like the knight in shinning armor. I'm still looking through all the posts on this site but there is just so many.
I feel that I am putting in all the effort right now, she doesn't seem to be texting or calling me asking me to hang out even though we both know that when we hang out its pretty much always going to lead to sex, which we both want and we do text all day everyday about random things but she never seems to be into figuring out when to see each other. I think she might be nervous but the bride has even assured her everything is fine.
The brides words to her were "I used to date and sleep with him and now I'm married to his best friend and it's not awkward one bit we still hang out all the time as friends"
so how can I get her pursuing me more and to get her to subconciously not go looking for anyone else and focus on me?