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    novice.pua is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Cousins

    OK guys, I have runin to a bit of an unusual problem regarding isolating.

    I met two girls at a restaurant. They were both waitresses there. I chatted a bit with both, together and separately. They seemed to hook (laughed at silly jokes, and came to my table even when there was no need to). Before I left, I asked one of them about her number. She didn't really respond, but a short while later the other one comes back with the bill and both of their numbers. So later in the day I text both of them. Only the girl who gave me the numbers responds. So I text a bit back and forth with this one, and offer her to come out. During later texts it becomes apparent that they are both coming (english you singular/plural confusion I guess), and a bit later she asks if it is ok if they bring her cousin as well. I agree on the condition that the cousin is hot. During later texts she runs out of money on her sim card, and the texting continues with the other girl.

    Anyway, when they show up, the cousin isn't with them but joins us a bit later. She is very much into me (but not hot at all), so the banter picks up a notch, with the other girls too. it also turns out that they are all three cousins.

    In the end they were set to go to a club later in the evening. The try to drag me with them, but I declined, both because I was driving, and therefore couldn't drink, and also because I didn't want to become their walking ATM, and lastly, I was a bit afraid I would be dumped with the cousin. So I just dropped them off at the nightclub and went home.

    Later in the night the one I first asked the number from texts me back and thanks for the evening. (the other one was out of money on the sim, so I don't think there is anything to be learned from who texted back)

    Now....

    I realize I did at least one mistake here:
    - I should have indicted more clearly which one of them I was into, and tried to Isolate her. However, because I liked both, I kept playing on two horses.

    If you guys can see other things I could improve on, please let me know.

    But what I am most interested in is this: Obviously the girls are very close, do you think there is a way I could isolate one of them? Or should I just put them on the back burner? Or maybe try for a threesome?


    Any input is welcome

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    Default Re: Cousins

    Yeah, it sounds like you need to work on your isolating a bit.

    One thing I like to do is divide my attention. When you have a group of two (which seems to be common around here), you start out by giving the non-target girl like 60-70% of your attention while focusing on the hot one/target ~30% of the time. Do this for the first five minutes or so, then excuse yourself. Go get a drink, take a leak, etc. Then return and shift 60-70% on your target. This helps establish a postive rapport with the friend/non-target and turns her into a wingman of sorts. When you shift your attention to the target for the rest of the time, the non-target will take the hint on who you're really after, but won't try to block you.

    You may not even have to take the break. Depends on the situation.


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