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    Default Asking girl from work out

    I kind of just want some reassurance to build my confidence up. So this girl I work with is a 10 and I've had some tad bits of flirting with her and built some rapport but not enough that I face the friend zone. I really started trying to get with her about two weeks ago when she said something and I teased her for being wrong and she giggled and started flirting with me from that point forward by acting childish and acting like shes throwing things at me and saying childish things like "your mom" when I ask her something work related. I haven't done Kino because of fear of getting her creeped out but I planned something out I don't think would make her creeped out and I get the feeling shed get the butterflies from and would be a good starter convo to asking her out. Keep in mind I work in a restaurant.

    So pretty much that day I want to start out small talk as usual then work for an hour or two with the normal quips every time we pass each other and then once I can find her without our managers or coworkers around I'll try starting a longer convo like ask her about her week or anything important in her life ect. to get her talking and about two dialogs in I'll say "you got something in her hair". After she tries to get it out I'll say she's still missing it and eventually say "here let me get it for you" then gently put my fingers through her hair and get a nice feel of it tthen compliment her on it. At this point I think she'll have the butterflies and then say how good I think she looks today then ask what shes doing the night I plan on taking her out, then hit her with the "well you should come have dinner with me that night", ask for her number and take her out to a nice restaurant.

    What do you guys think of this plan? A friend I discussed it with thinks it will either go really good or really bad, like she'll get creeped out by me touching her or she'll be really receptive. I've been having a streak of confidence lately and think she will like it and will take the bait. What do you guys think? This would be my first kino, but I get the feeling shes already attracted to me and may have a mini crush on me because of the way she acts around me compared to before I started trying to flirt. You guys think this is solid and will work? If not give me some other examples of smooth ways to pull this off. This is definitely the hottest girl I would have pulled before, and thats saying something because my last serious girl was extremely hot as well so I really want to get this girl to show off to everyone and be able to feed my ego some more by having her compliment my other successes.

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    Default Re: Asking girl from work out

    A friend I discussed it with thinks it will either go really good or really bad, like she'll get creeped out by me touching her or she'll be really receptive.
    Agreed. But the fact that you are thinking about this and a bit shaky (not 100% sure whether to do it or not), is the only thing that can go wrong. I would suggest don't pre-plan it, since if your energy at that particular moment is not good, it will come off as creepy. Just do it in the moment when you have that "streak of confidence". It feels natural and goes with the flow.

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    Default Re: Asking girl from work out

    I agree with Sam on that; if you overthink it the whole thing will seem forced and that will kill the moment. Like you said--and how I approach most things--it will either go really good or really bad. But I have a feeling you'll know when the timing is right to pull that off, so good luck and let us know how it goes!

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    Yeah dude don't pre plan it so hard like that. The only pre planning you should have is to in the back of your mind, when she gets to work tell her she looks beautiful. Literally works like a charm when done right. I just got off work, the hottest girl who I just found it is single was sitting there, I said well helllo beautiful lady and smiled. We work in a psych ward essentially, and her response was "really I have been doing my make up for an hour because that lady told me I was ugly.. thank you" and I said "well sounds like she needs new glasses..." my coworkers laughed and rolled their eyes in the background, while i made direct eye contact with her. She blushed her ass off and we flirted for a bit.

    This is a good way to game at work because it's not too "gamey" like the pickup lines and pre planned Kino and shit. You have to genuinely mean it, and not go too far because it's your work place. Telling a girl she is beautiful is totally fine at your work.
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    Default Re: Asking girl from work out

    Well we worked together last night but it was busy as shit and other coworkers were around and I want to do it discreetly in case she says no so I don't have to hear some shit from other people about it. I pretty much was doing light flirting as she walked by and a few "accidental" bumping into her and stuff since there were other coworkers or managers around. Lifestylebible, I'm going to go with your tactic first thing I walk in if I can tell she worked on her make up next time, most of the time she doesn't put on make up for work but if she does I'll just open it up like "wow I like what you did with your make up today, you look really pretty". The reason I planned that specific one out is cause I want the chick to sort of get a crush on me and get the butterflies when I'm about to bust the question, I feel she wouldn't be able to say no with her emotions acting up. I'll let you guys know when I'm able to follow through with it. Hopefully next time we work together it's not as busy so I can catch her without other coworkers around to run my game.

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    Default Re: Asking girl from work out

    Yeah man the important thing here is to not get fixed on one girl, go ahead an experiment with others advice and your own intuition, and then tweak it for the next girl. What you have planned telling her the make up thing is a great call dude, delivered properly she has no reason to reject
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