Ok, so there is this girl I lived next door to for the majority of my childhood and we were childhood friends and hung out literally everyday all the way until I moved away in like 9th grade. I still saw her every once in awhile afterward and after we both hit puberty we talked for awhile and we actually were planning on having sex (meaning I'd take her virginity) but this was before I had a car and could go see her so she ended up getting a boyfriend and such and we didnt really talk about it anymore and we lost touch. So now the guy like controls her and takes her phone and all this other insecure shit. So anyway she texts me one day asking to hang out and smoke a blunt but tells me not to text her just in case hes with her and will get mad and we ended up not hanging out cause he was with her all day. She grew up to be a freaking 9 and I totally want to twax. I dont want to date her though because she became a little too into getting high (she dont do heavy drugs but she smokes wayyy too much weed and does party drugs like xanex and molly which I'm not into at all) and doesn't seem to be going anywhere in life but I'm in college and run a business and want a trophy wife. Anyway she is very open about how freaky she is but I dont think shes a slut cause I never heard about her cheating on the guy but I want to smash that, I've known her since we were kids and I think I should be able to try to hit that at least once haha.
Anyway if we end up hanging out I plan on smoking a blizzy and doing some Kino while reminiscing on our childhood and plan on using a BF destroyer technique on her to hopefully get her to twax. The problem is I've never done boyfriend destroyer and have no idea how to use it so could somebody run down how I could use it in this situation? To me it seems very low risk cause she wouldnt get creeped out cause she knows me and if she rejects me she wouldnt judge me cause we talked about doing it before they got together plus we were like best friends as kids.