Re: The mood has vanished
Yo Blue Dragon,
Firstly, sounds like you have a class 5 clinger on your hands. They're really not worth the sex.
Secondly, I'm going to assume you responded to all of her texts at first, because you were excited to receive a woman's attention, then you grew tired of it and cooled off.
You were incongruent. Her sending you all sorts of texts is kindof like a shit test to see if you'll respond to each and every one of them quickly. If you would have been cool from the start, letting her earn your interest, instead of texting her back every time she sent you a little quip about her day, you would have stood more of a chance.
Although, I stand with my opinion that this one is a clinger and should probably be dropped.
If she isn't a clinger, you could throw her a little cliffhanger to spark her interest again: "OMG, the craziest thing happened to me today..." When she texts you back: "OMG WHAT!?!?", just chill. Don't text back right away, and when you do text back, keep the game alive, "Let's hang out Friday at 632, I'll tell u then" boom.
Also, don't take texting seriously. Texting is the most meaningless form of communication known to man. It's transient. It's 'throwaway'. It will always take a backseat to face-to-face communication and phone conversation.
Check out this blog/video for more info on effective texting: How To Text Her | Jake Berreth Dating
Hope that helps!!
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