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    Gingerguy99 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Question Four Dates, no reply..Advice?

    Met someone through a dating app. The first date went well and we met up again less than a week later. We have been on four good dates within a month.

    However, I've noticed after the 3rd date that her text replies became less frequent. When I asked her out for a fifth date she replied the next day that she was busy and couldn't meet up. I replied, "Thanks for letting me know and have a good weekend." We didn't contact each other for a week after that. I checked in with a casual, "All good with you?" and haven't received a reply back yet and it's been about a week since I sent the last text.

    Should I let it go or check in again next week (which would be 2 weeks w/o a text from her side) asking if she'd like to go out again? Appreciate any clues from you guys.

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    Default Re: Four Dates, no reply..Advice?

    Let it go. From experience some of them will contact you back especially that you've gone on 3+ dates. Sometimes the girl genuinely has things going on in her life she has to sort out.

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    Default Re: Four Dates, no reply..Advice?

    Quote Originally Posted by simonspatial View Post
    Let it go. From experience some of them will contact you back especially that you've gone on 3+ dates. Sometimes the girl genuinely has things going on in her life she has to sort out.
    Thanks for the feedback. I'll let it go and see if she pops up again down the line.

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    Default Re: Four Dates, no reply..Advice?

    It sounds like you stalled with attraction & escalation.
    The "All good with you?" text was the same thing every other chump/guy would send.

    Don't be afraid to be bold & push a bit further than you're usually comfortable with.

    Also... I'm not sure what your dates were like, but don't do the typical movie/dinner type stuff.
    Make the dates playful & more interactive.

    Use your imagination & creativity.

    Honestly, you should be in bed together by no later than the 2nd date, if you build attraction & seduction correctly.



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