AFC here, In Alaska for the summer. Some friends and I went to a bar to see some out of town strip show. I was with a fortyish year old dude, two 29 year old chicks (one of which I know), and a square of a dude we invited because it'd be good for him. Alaska isn't the land of plenty, so you apparently cant be picky. While the "hot" one of the two goes rogue at the bar, I start chatting up the other chick (hb5 Alaska standards, hb4 lower 48) and introducing kino. I start with socially acceptable places like brushing her arm, putting my arm around her waist ect. I'm getting IoIs from her left and right and we're having a good time, so I take her on the dance floor. She lets me move in close, and I go for the kiss. She kisses back, and even starts to introduce tongue, but pulls away after a few seconds. The rest of the night ends with her wrapping her arm around mine, and giving subtle, gentle IoIs, but mostly she seemed concerned with her drunk ass friend who we had to baby sit and beat the 10+ AFCs from her. We all walk back to hb5's place where she again makes a half hearted attempt to hold my hand. While she tries to put drunk friend to bed, she insists that I sleep in the empty apartment next door. The next day the group hangs out all day, and hb5 laughs at my jokes and keeps up the eye contact.
Now we come to my question/problems. I didn't Number Close because I assumed we would all be hanging out again as a group on Monday. Well, obviously I did something to get uninvited. I make a potentially fatal AFC move and ask my friend the "hot one" if she'd ask hb5 if she minds If I get her # from the hot friend. The next morning, hot friend intentionally avoids me and slips out of the communal house we all live in and leaves with 40 something dude, I assume to hang out with HB6 like we all originally planned. My assumption is that I'm getting either cockblocked by my supposed friends 40ish dude and hot chick, or, they're just trying to spare my "feelings" from the rejection that hb6 is too timid to give. When I asked hot friend if she thinks hb5 had a good time that Friday night, she said "I KNOW she had a good time". Was I just the entertainment for hb5 while her friend gets blitzed? Since I can't contact hb5 except through my supposed friends who are now avoiding me, how the hell do I react? I'm considering asking 40ish dude to tell me man to man whats up, but I'm wondering if that too would be an AFC move since It shows I care that I didn't get the hb5.