Hey I need some advice and you’re the best so here it goes I have two issues:
HB10 flaked on me a we are facebook friends and I have her number leading up to the date we texted and talk on facebook a lot her reasoning for flaking was she had to go black friday shopping and could get out of it but truth is we have never meet so it was a blind date I get it I need to assert myself a little better, but since then I’ve froze her out now it’s time to let her back in. She is a hb10 so tons of dudes text and facebook message her typical AFC’s so I feel I need to set the bar that I’m not an afc.
I’m going to use the stagey of a facebook post show her I have balls and then let all the afc’s build me this HB she puts a facebook status up with in an hour she has 5 comments and 10 likes all bye dudes she is that hot and so many afc's tring to game on her so i need to shock her system and show up all those afc's its time to move over
this is what i got and it sucks so help me out
Hey goofball I’m going to me in ******* this weekend and need some one that is cool as me to hangout with. Now don’t try and pull the cute girl shenanigans on me again, you are kinda cute for a girl but you have one strike already.(becuse she flaked on me)
This is what I got so far my goal is to call her out for faking on me and then get her to realize that she should hangout becouse im not a afc. now if we hangout I will have her come down to my family’s bar/restaurant there in her town and we will hangout there, because there is nothing to do in the town or try and get her to hangout with her and some of her friends so it’s less of a blind date,
I just need to hangout with her and ill be just fine but I need to create the opportune to see her this is where im stuck
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This is a game changer I’ve been hanging out with this chick for the past month, we clicked right away she use to date one of my friends from high that’s how we know each other and she is just out of a relationship about 3 months ago so never been single and enjoying live I get it.
But I feel we are at the stage where we need to clarify what our intent is to just have fun, or be more than just friends. No I have a huge negative in my face she knows that I’ve been with a lot of girls and that scares her she has mentioned it a few times so I haven’t had sex with her yet that isn’t a bad thing she is worth the wait I feel, (I’ve never felt like that before).
Saturday im going to hangout with her and im going to try and move past the kissing stage and also should I bring up the topic of what are we, she lives 2 hours away so I feel I need to assert the idea of being more than just friends because I don’t want to waste my time.
Now I have a few lines I’ve been working on. I don’t want to spoke her but im going to say something how looking for someone to enjoy some time with gain a best friend if it turns into something more i would not shut it down.
That’s what I got so far, now if you asked me if I would trade In the pua status for her I would bro she is that cool. I’ve spent the night with her 3 nights, I took her to the cav’s game and she has meet some of my family already because her my grandpa and I went to the cavs game so I had to stop bye the restaurant to pick him up and the whole family was their, she played it cool bye the end of the night she was calling my grandpa gramps so that played huge + for me and we stayed their that night in the camper lol.
I want to assert myself that we are going to be more than just friends but not rush things how do i do this fellow pua's