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  1. #1
    lil7tmac Guest

    Default fellow pua's help me out two issues i have

    Hey I need some advice and you’re the best so here it goes I have two issues:

    Issue 1:

    HB10 flaked on me a we are facebook friends and I have her number leading up to the date we texted and talk on facebook a lot her reasoning for flaking was she had to go black friday shopping and could get out of it but truth is we have never meet so it was a blind date I get it I need to assert myself a little better, but since then I’ve froze her out now it’s time to let her back in. She is a hb10 so tons of dudes text and facebook message her typical AFC’s so I feel I need to set the bar that I’m not an afc.

    I’m going to use the stagey of a facebook post show her I have balls and then let all the afc’s build me this HB she puts a facebook status up with in an hour she has 5 comments and 10 likes all bye dudes she is that hot and so many afc's tring to game on her so i need to shock her system and show up all those afc's its time to move over


    this is what i got and it sucks so help me out

    Hey goofball I’m going to me in ******* this weekend and need some one that is cool as me to hangout with. Now don’t try and pull the cute girl shenanigans on me again, you are kinda cute for a girl but you have one strike already.(becuse she flaked on me)

    This is what I got so far my goal is to call her out for faking on me and then get her to realize that she should hangout becouse im not a afc. now if we hangout I will have her come down to my family’s bar/restaurant there in her town and we will hangout there, because there is nothing to do in the town or try and get her to hangout with her and some of her friends so it’s less of a blind date,

    I just need to hangout with her and ill be just fine but I need to create the opportune to see her this is where im stuck

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    issue 2:

    This is a game changer I’ve been hanging out with this chick for the past month, we clicked right away she use to date one of my friends from high that’s how we know each other and she is just out of a relationship about 3 months ago so never been single and enjoying live I get it.

    But I feel we are at the stage where we need to clarify what our intent is to just have fun, or be more than just friends. No I have a huge negative in my face she knows that I’ve been with a lot of girls and that scares her she has mentioned it a few times so I haven’t had sex with her yet that isn’t a bad thing she is worth the wait I feel, (I’ve never felt like that before).

    Saturday im going to hangout with her and im going to try and move past the kissing stage and also should I bring up the topic of what are we, she lives 2 hours away so I feel I need to assert the idea of being more than just friends because I don’t want to waste my time.

    Now I have a few lines I’ve been working on. I don’t want to spoke her but im going to say something how looking for someone to enjoy some time with gain a best friend if it turns into something more i would not shut it down.

    That’s what I got so far, now if you asked me if I would trade In the pua status for her I would bro she is that cool. I’ve spent the night with her 3 nights, I took her to the cav’s game and she has meet some of my family already because her my grandpa and I went to the cavs game so I had to stop bye the restaurant to pick him up and the whole family was their, she played it cool bye the end of the night she was calling my grandpa gramps so that played huge + for me and we stayed their that night in the camper lol.

    I want to assert myself that we are going to be more than just friends but not rush things how do i do this fellow pua's
    Last edited by lil7tmac; 12-06-2010 at 09:30 AM.

  2. #2
    lil7tmac Guest

    Default Re: fellow pua's help me out two issues i have

    update on issue 1******

    im trying to hangout with this girl on friday well its monday i have her number already so im using the text game that i have and run it on her to lose the blind date vibe build some repore show her i dont just want to f*nk her like every other lame AFC's is trying to do or lame text game

    now ive study all the B4Yourtexther notes im a good texter but i have to build that repore with her. so i used one of online dating lines that i got from Neil Strauss picks up Jessica Alba on Jimmy Kimmel since this is kinda the same sitiution it is a cold/blind set. i no nothing about her and she did flake on me my past text game has bee the cocky-funny lines that work but i havent dug deep to really get to know her

    so game plan monday i dropped this text, last time i text her was saturday with the cocky funny text with the past text game that Iíve ran have been the cocky funny lines and she is defiantly engaged but she has some many other dude blowing her up i have to step it up build that repore that i think of her a person not a piece of meat so i hope this kinda catch's her off gaurd.

    ***Sammy, name 3 things about yourself that would make me want to get to know you better, and none of them can be about your looks or what you do!****


    NOW my next game plan is to response to her answers i know what she is going to say and Iím going to freeze her out for a few hours then ill respond

    WED. game plan thatís when Iím going to drop my facebook post for all to see and this is where i draw a blank I want a good post that will call her out but yet give her a second chance and also let al the afcís build me up with their hate


  3. #3
    grizzlyman32085 Guest

    Default Re: fellow pua's help me out two issues i have

    hey man, maybe it wouldnt hurt to back off if youve been texting, once you intrest a girl a little and you pull back, it shows youre not desperate like all other afcs. she'll ask herself, why isnt he crawling at my feet like all the other guys??? then she'll start to chase you. once she realizes youre different, and a challenge, she'll be trying to break you, which gives you time to build rapport in the process.

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    Default Re: fellow pua's help me out two issues i have

    i agree with grizzly. do a good post and then pull back slightly. she will start thinking about you cause guys are going to be trying to AMOG you when u post direct text game on here page.

    now as far as text i would say something calling her out but playfully like you dont care and give her something to make up to you.

    Hey Flaky Mcflakerson, i just had a great idea. Since you missed last hangout you can make it up to me by getting a bottle of wine and coming to chill for _____. Dont forget, three strikes and ur out little miss flaky pants. lol
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    Default Re: fellow pua's help me out two issues i have

    i agree with grizzly. do a good post and then pull back slightly. she will start thinking about you cause guys are going to be trying to AMOG you when u post direct text game on here page.

    now as far as text i would say something calling her out but playfully like you dont care and give her something to make up to you.

    Hey Flaky Mcflakerson, i just had a great idea. Since you missed last hangout you can make it up to me by getting a bottle of wine and coming to chill for _____. Dont forget, three strikes and ur out little miss flaky pants. lol
    I live in my reality and youíre a guest

  6. #6
    lil7tmac Guest

    Default Re: fellow pua's help me out two issues i have

    thanks crob and grizzy, i agree i backed off and we will see where it goes.

    the big question is can you help with issue 2, this is a good girl that I’m digging but it’s a long distance friendship and she is hard to read because she doesn’t text or really talk on the phone much we talk maybe 2 time Monday-Friday and if I wanna see her I just tell her I will come down and she says ok ill be here, its that simple know i try and get as much facetime as possible to build that repport

    she just got out of a long-term relationship with one of my buddies from high school about 3 months ago soi think she wants to be single vibe but also wants a bf, also i cant tell if she has other dude chasen after her too thats a tuff read she is never on her phone or i never hear it getting blown up when i with her, im sure she does she is hot and every AFC tries to holla at hot girls. thats why i try for as much facetime as i can get

    i feel that when we are together it's like we have been bf/gf for years we click she jokes with me that she has wifed me up seem like they are heading in the right direction but thier is no clear understanding of what our relationship is

    now i fcked up on day one she asked me how many girls ive been with and i was honest i told her the truth and she did not like that she tends to bring it up i think this is why i havent had sex yet she want to see if im real or just a player. Because she thinks im chasing girl non-stop. im still chasen gilrs becouse i dont what my relationship is with her, i would stop and only be commettited to her if thats what it takes

    do you think i need to bring up the issue of where we stand i dont want to spook her or smoother us but i also dont want to waste my time. She is a cool girl that I want to get to know she isn’t the type to just fank and move on. She is the type that you make your best friend



    what to do keep getting face time and build that repport and see where it goes or ask where me and her stand
    Last edited by lil7tmac; 12-07-2010 at 11:32 AM.

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    Default Re: fellow pua's help me out two issues i have

    best advice is just to let it go where it goes, dont try and make her choose what she wants especially if she just got out of a relationship. have fun enjoy her company and if you get The Vibe that she does want you as a bf then ask. yea you may waste some time if it doesnt work out with her but at the same time you said shes a chill chick so how much of a waste is it really?

    second thing is do you want her as a girlfriend, you did say she lives like 2 hours away. that can be a big issue to her. its hard to have a long distance relationship with someone. just something to chew on

  8. #8
    culturedpearls Guest

    Default Re: fellow pua's help me out two issues i have

    I think you need to decide first what you really intend for girl number two... before you go analyzing what she could be thinking and feeling. No guarantees, yes, but that's why braves were called braves.


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