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    LiOnHeArT is offline PUA in Training
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    Default She threw the F word 5 times at me in under 1 min

    Okay so I have a new girl who I am working on who will not allow herself to be open with her sexuality, and very much looking for a prince charming type, I have been talking to her on and off for about a month over skype, playing the game right by slipping in innuendos and openly flirting with her. While I was talking to her she burst into her sob story about shes been with one guy who didn't even make her orgasm once. And I played around with it saying she should get out more. She said she was trying to find the guy, and I said sarcastically (trying to not be forward) that "I guess I could sacrifice myself" and she laughed and asked "why would you do such a thing". She then proceeded to tell me that she saw me "as too much of a friend" and used the F word 4 more times in rapid succession. My ears were practically bleeding.... After that I did some disqualifying but i fear I have lost the battle and the war....Is this a lost cause Y/N?

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    Default Re: She threw the F word 5 times at me in under 1 min

    Hmmm... I guess you should have reminded her that there are friends you can 'benefit' from

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    Default Re: She threw the F word 5 times at me in under 1 min

    Brilliant and can be used for ammo in a different situation but she is definitely is not the type that would have a friend with benefits....she really has this idea that sex should only be after marriage or you should be with....the one.. so I ask again hopeless or can I use something dirty and clever? Oh btw she still likes her first a lot from what I can tell...for some reason I remember reading a great lay report before about a PUA pulling this type of situation off with a deeply religious girl can anybody confirm?

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    Default Re: She threw the F word 5 times at me in under 1 min

    I would implore you not to do anything unfair to her. If she wants one thing, never mislead her into thinking you want the same just so you can sleep with her.

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    Default Re: She threw the F word 5 times at me in under 1 min

    Seriously, if she's this bent over an old flame still, I'd leave her alone and just target somebody else. Unless you've got oneitis over this girl, just let go dude. Be her friend if you think you can be a good one, or if you have time for it, but don't go in thinking you're all what she needs to recover.

    I mean, there were tears man! For a guy who didn't notice she wasn't climaxing. Must be love indeed!

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    Default Re: She threw the F word 5 times at me in under 1 min

    Thanks everybody for the advice
    @Raven I'm not the type to force myself on a girl like that, they know full well what is coming, this one was more of a potential girlfriend material because she is sort of cute and innocent. I knew full well going in shes not open and shut lay material.

    @ Typhoon Your response was probably the most sobering..and I thank you greatly (for saving me from potential oneitis). I was selling myself to myself to chase her if that makes sense. Actually I think your final statement:

    "I mean, there were tears man! For a guy who didn't notice she wasn't climaxing. Must be love indeed! "

    Really hit me as kind of funny and sad....
    But has anybody noticed that some girls are still stuck on their first or is it just me? Regardless of how good the sex was?

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    Default Re: She threw the F word 5 times at me in under 1 min

    I recently saw a video from Catholic television on how a sexual partner really, really affects a woman psychologically and biologically. Hard to explain what exactly happens, but basically a bunch of factors come together and a man leaves a "permanent mark" on her of sorts. That's why so many get stuck on their first. I think all are in some way.

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    LiOnHeArT is offline PUA in Training
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    Default Re: She threw the F word 5 times at me in under 1 min

    See I wondered if it was something religiously related and it makes sense.

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    Default Re: She threw the F word 5 times at me in under 1 min

    Quote Originally Posted by LiOnHeArT View Post
    But has anybody noticed that some girls are still stuck on their first or is it just me? Regardless of how good the sex was?
    Quote Originally Posted by Raven View Post
    I recently saw a video from Catholic television on how a sexual partner really, really affects a woman psychologically and biologically. Hard to explain what exactly happens, but basically a bunch of factors come together and a man leaves a "permanent mark" on her of sorts. That's why so many get stuck on their first. I think all are in some way.
    Honestly, the sex can be bad or just so-so, the jerk guy also just so-so and feelings not really there... but some girls really get stuck with who they lost their virginity to.

    It's not just religion either... I think it's more of what they really believe about sex, as opposed to what they say about it, and what they believe about themselves, as opposed to what they project to the world...

    It's sad that some really believe they couldn't offer anything anymore because they've given in already... inside, they must be labelling themselves as 'stupid' or 'slut' and cannot forgive themselves for having 'lost' their innocence...

    And while I ask my sisters to choose well who they lose their virginity to, I also tell them not to put much premium on that nor think themselves better than non-virgins... your girl, she's got a difficult journey ahead of her and unless you're really into her so much that you'd wanna see her through, be a casual friend and move on to other girls...

    plus, you seem to be young and right now, dating is good for you

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    Default Re: She threw the F word 5 times at me in under 1 min

    Sounds like other people have given thought to this too. Thanks sounds like you have had experience with these types more than I have. Well she already considers me a friend so I suppose I could try to help her get through this but the problem is she is just damn cute and so very close to my personal tastes in what I want in a GF that I find myself falling into oneitis a lot. I suppose I can remedy it by dating more though.. you are right in assuming I'm young. I'm 19 and a soph in college.


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