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    jg1
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    Default Seducing acquaintances.

    My question is how to build attraction between me and some girls I already know. I've known these girls for years but was never really friends with them but we were acquaintances and knew of each other and have tons of mutual friends. Like when I run in to these people around campus and at parties what type of a Mindset should I take going to talk to them? I was on the east coast for a year and a half so it's not like I've hung out with these people for a while, but we are already pretty aware of each other from high school if that makes sense. They probably know me as the nice guy who everyone got along with, but I want to get out of the "know of" zone, past the friend zone, and get to flirting and hooking up. This post may not be clear so if i need to clarify anything let me know.

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    Pinai Guest

    Default Re: Seducing acquaintances.

    Like the advice in another thread about being a challenge, you can build attraction by being attractive.

    Dress well, mind your posture, hygiene, how you talk.

    Have hobbies or pursue passions so you'd actually have something to say and share.

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    jg1
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    Default Re: Seducing acquaintances.

    I got a lot of stuff going on and having something to talk about isn't really a problem. If these people probably have me in a friend zone or in the "undecided" pile, would you escalate differently in this scenario than with people you just meet? This may be an easy answer I'm overcomplicating. But if a person has a preconceived notion about you then does that make it harder to escalate and get a positive response from her?

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    Nubbi Guest

    Default Re: Seducing acquaintances.

    Have you tried approaching them bro? Maybe they just need opportunities to get attracted. Maybe try approaching one or two first and don't let having known them for years intimidate you.

    besides, they could have friends you can also game, hehe.

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    Default Re: Seducing acquaintances.

    If you have some of them on FB, maybe you can utilize that to show social proof and also interest them. Check out the other topics here on online dating tips.

    If not, well add them up. You must know some of their names anyway. And if you can't flirt your way through them, they at least have friends. Haha.

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    jg1
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    Default Re: Seducing acquaintances.

    i hit a few up on facebook and had good convos trying to build more recent rapport since it's been a while. i'm having troubles turning the corner on building attraction. any tips? i'll check out other online dating stuff. thanks for the input.

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    culturedpearls Guest

    Default Re: Seducing acquaintances.

    Hmm... have they been replying to your status alerts? If yes, then post ones that would generate their opinions. Ask where to get a good massage (then talk about massages and bodies).

    If they're posting pictures of themselves... compliment them in private, "you look like youre having a blast", "you're rocking that top" or one of the suggestions I found in this forum, comment on the "warm smile"


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